2nd date expiry

[JessicaJones84]

Hi Guys,

I had a first date a week ago. I should be asked for a 2nd date by now right? Since the date he whatsapps me about twice a day. He keeps the convo going by asking my questions but the contact has majorly speed down since before the 1st date. My gut is telling me he's not that into it but why keep asking me questions? He mentioned a second date at the end of the 1st date but shouldn't he have asked by now?

[madotnw_nihs]

what has he asked you since the 1st date?

[JessicaJones84]

He is asking me about my uni work, what am I doing, how am I feeling about my work. That kinda thing. It's a bit confusing!

[GLYC]

He's probably just clueless on how to do things.

I went out with a woman and waited a week to contact her and ask her out again. I was moreso just thinking everything over before asking her out again, but a part of me had some slight doubt if she was super into things. Which made me doubt some things a little bit more

[Hooo!]

I get that you want a second date
Then go fix one
Or are you a princess in a tower? Even she had to let her hair down

[pcmaster]

I get that you want a second date
Then go fix one
Or are you a princess in a tower? Even she had to let her hair down

LOL good one.

[CantMoveOn]

I agree with Hoo, don't wait for him, do it yourself. You make the second date and if he agrees then it never lost interest because if he did he would find an excuse not to go.

[Hooo!]

@gly and that is why it’s stupid to wait if you don’t know

Sometimes you have a gut feeling that things are one way or the other

But sometimes you simply don’t know
That’s where you ask yourself what you want and then assume that this is exactly what is happening. AND then you just go make this happen