Why won't anyone be intimate with me?

[Joeyk4]

All my life people have voluntarily told me how "pretty" or "beautiful" I was. They would say things like "you're so pretty I can't believe you don't have a boyfriend". Yet nobody ever wanted me. People would always like my friend over me. Nobody would ever ask me out. 2 men I knew and liked wouldn't even kiss me but then I find out they slept with my friend who was extremely overweight. Why would he sleep with her but when alone with me wouldn't even try anything or make an excuse to leave? If I'm supposedly so pretty why am the only one that nobody wants? I know it's not only about looks but I'm smart, and fun. Now I'm married and my husband has no interest in me. And he was never really into me. Just a friend that I settled for since nobody else ever wanted to date me. Even men I met online made excuses to leave or never called for a second date. It's really is discouraging. Recently my husband and I separated (and we had an agreement to be with other people) and I almost got a chance to be with a guy I knew from an old job who contacted me but then he even backed out saying he "couldn't go through with it". But I find out he slept with one of my friends and several other people. So why couldn't he get with me? One guy couldn't. even get hard around me when we made out. Neither could my husband barely in the last few years. My friend who is 300 lbs and not attractive gets men left and right. I just don't understand what is wrong with me. I'm not one to throw myself at someone and would rather have dated and not sleep with someone right away but no man wanted to date me.

[Hooo!]

We can’t say without knowing you
Maybe you are dumb as bread
Maybe not
Maybe you wear 1 ton makeup
Maybe not
Maybe it’s just boys intimated by your good looks
Maybe not
Maybe you are like the princess „no one shows interest in me“ while there are men showing interest but you are just not interested in them
Maybe not
We can’t know
Maybe it’s you are married
Maybe not
Maybe you push to hard
Maybe not