Hi,
So me and my girlfriend of 11 months just broke up. We broke up over 3 main reasons;
1) She didn't like when I got angry I would ignore/shut people off
2) Miscommunication to a particular situation that caused us to break up
3) Relationship Immaturity on both parties.
Without going into heavy detail, we gave each other a 2 week break and we met up recently to check how we are going. Right now, we agree that our old relationship died and were both being mature about it because we both talked that this break was good because it made us realise the mistakes we both made and that at the time, we did not communicate our feelings properly which caused us to split. Whilst meeting, we agreed that we can't push each other out of our lives fully and that somehow we kept telling each other, the Door is always open for us to get back together and IF we were to go back together, we want to make it right and make things happen naturally.
She also mentioned that she's glad we can talk and be civil and that in the future we should start hanging out, go to lunch/dinner at places and one thing in particular she wants to go beach.
I'm scared for myself that if we go do these things I won't properly move on but I'm on the fence because what if our attraction by texting and meeting up builds again and we decide to give it another try. I wouldn't want to lose out on that opportunity because I know deep down we care for each other and still love each other enough that we don't wanna completely shut each other out of each other's lives but at the same time we understand the door is not closed but there are no promises.
Anyone's help is greatly appreciate.