iN love with second cousin, should i tell her?

[leo1124354]

So my problem is that im in love with my second cousin, not becuase she is the hottest girl in town or because she has the biggest tits. I love her because of how she is , how she laughs, how she treats me, how we know almost everything from eachother , i love the moments we share together. Our two families are pretty close we sea each other a lot, at least once an weak. This summer our families will go together on vacation and we are probably going a day together somewhere and im thinking about telling her how i feel. What do you guys/girls think? should i keep it an secret because we are related? or should i tell it to her? ps: im not an native speaker so sorry for typos

[Hooo!]

Have faith in making own decisions

[richiro]

yeah.. stop loving her. it's too dangerous and probably illegal in areas.
definitly don't tell her.

[TheEvilJester]

It is actually a little hard to comment being as I see you are from a different country than I am. In the United States, that is generally considered a no-no. So, my personal thought is that it is best to let go of those feelings. This is a family member you are talking about.

But, I don't know enough about other cultures to know what the general thoughts on that may be for yours. It isn't like we are talking about a sister or even a direct cousin. If I am remembering correctly, a second cousin means it is the child of your mother or father's cousin. Maybe in some cultures that is removed enough that they don't consider it taboo. I wouldn't know, I can't say.

But, I know I personally would suggest against it. I personally would consider that a no go. To me, it is still family. Whether or not you are even close as a family unit, it is still family. But, again, that is just my thoughts on the matter.

[madotnw_nihs]

I can't say I would recommend it. You want to procreate with someone as far away from your family tree as possible.

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