My ex and I broke up a month ago. She didn’t have infatuation for me anymore but still thinks a lot about me. We’re on good terms though. She has a lot of stress in terms of health and emotional stress. That’s why she said she needs time to heal and doesn’t want a relationship right now. She still wants to see me and have a good time (including sex), just without the label of a relationship.
Now I’ve met someone, we went on a date and we kissed. I can imagine a sexual relationship but not more. I know she will never be the love of my life.
I still think about my ex but I also don’t want to be the guy on the waiting bench until my ex decides to want me back. Since we’re on good terms and I feel like we could talk about everything, I’m still not sure if I should tell my ex about my encounter. Deep inside I still feel for her and don’t want to ruin a chance of getting back together.