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    Girlfriend likes kids, I don't...

    I’ll be straight forward with this, I don’t like children. I don’t hate them, don’t get me wrong, but I can’t seem to stand their constant crying and whining. My god, I don’t know how others can deal with them for a long time. A day with them under my care would already push me off the edge.

    Anyway, my girlfriend who’s living in Peru adores kids. We’ve been together for a long time, 7 years to be exact. After all this time, I simply can’t find it in me to grow fondness for children, I DON’T KNOW WHY. We’ve started talking about marriage since I did meet her through an international dating social event and those things are all about finding long lasting relationships and potential wives. With all this marriage talk, I can’t help but feel excited AND scared at the same time.

    My friends told me that I would naturally love children if they were my own but who really knows. My gf already knows how I dislike them but she’s more than willing to spend her life with me regardless of the things I dislike. I’d do anything for her guys. Please help find a way through this so I can propose to her already!

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    This relationship will go nowhere because if you get married she will want kids. You two are incompatible. I know this is hard to hear but it's better if you find someone more compatible. When you find someone really compatible, it really is a great relationship.

    Top 3 reasons why couples break up: Different goals with kids, money, and sex.
    I have a long time interest in psychology, specializing in relationship dynamics for 30 years.
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    I would suggest take some useful advice/tips from professionals here you may find interesting, https://datingama.amafeed.com/

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    Quote Originally Posted by bulrush View Post
    This relationship will go nowhere because if you get married she will want kids. You two are incompatible. I know this is hard to hear but it's better if you find someone more compatible. When you find someone really compatible, it really is a great relationship.

    Top 3 reasons why couples break up: Different goals with kids, money, and sex.

    I'll check this out

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    Quote Originally Posted by Gary Griffin View Post
    I would suggest take some useful advice/tips from professionals here you may find interesting, https://datingama.amafeed.com/
    thank you for this

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