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Thread: Lack of love. Please help!!

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    Lack of love. Please help!!

    Hi there! I have a burning question, one that has plagued me for years and really need to know what’s normal. I am a 35 year old female with four kids, married for 11 years. *I can only feel love or a connection on days 8-14 of my cycle. I am super aware that higher estrogen and testosterone are peaking at this point. Then after ovulation, I feel nothing or quite the opposite. I know many females have this issue with their libido but mine is connected to my “in love” feelings also. After ovulation, I can have a good libido on certain days but can feel any love or connection. So... days 14-28, I have zero attraction or want for love. My husband and I can’t have a real relationship because of this. It’s devastating. I feel like connection and libido are two different things. Why are my hormones dictating my “love” or “connection?” Does anyone else experience this?*

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    You see a symptom, but only a proper diagnosis can be made by a professional physician. Seek out a professional opinion, it could be life changing for you.

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    I'd tell you to try to diversify your intimate life. I know what I'm talking about. I had the same problem and I suffered from this! Before sex, I began to watch a "special" video https://nudebase.com/. It helps a lot. My husband is happy. I feel that our relationship is getting better. Good luck)

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    Doesn't it fluctuates with our mood for most of us? Why do you consider this abnormal?

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    the female that dumped me has this problem 362 days a year

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    Spicing things up in the bedroom and making your partner uncomfortable are two absolutely different things.

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    I'd tell you to try to diversify your intimate life. I know what I'm talking about. I had the same problem and I suffered from this! Before sex, I began to watch a "special" video https://nudebase.com/. It helps a lot. My husband is happy. I feel that our relationship is getting better.
    Last edited by Nonaras; 31-05-18 at 05:31 AM.

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    Thank you for sharing your thoughts.

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