Ex Husband Still Gives Me Gifts

[lyzaphoenix7]

It has been a yr and a half since our break-up. It was not on good terms since he cheated on me with a common friend, and smeared me to his friends and family to preserve his image. He still emails me (i kept my email open for bills and stuff) every now and then esp on special occasions like during my bday and christmas with "i miss you", "you're still the one, "im hurting too" blah blah but I never replied bec of his inconsistencies; I need the time to heal. He sent me gifts and cash too and he had it delivered to my place but I never used it; just stored it in a box in my closet. It is just not the same anymore, and returning it seems immature. Why does he still continue communicating with me and giving me presents even if he is now with this woman?

[jay2665]

That why men sometimes are damn~bt actually i m a man too. He has memory to you and stays with you for a yr that he cannot easily get you off. Maybe in his deep heart he also has feelings on you although he now live with another women. Men sometimes are greedy, they want you bt also want another. Treating one for a long time then wanting another fresher is their nature. Thats why he keep sending you gifts or things or cash means he is now wanting another one new and fresh. He wants you back bt i am sure that he will leave you until he has no freshness of you like the past.

Therefore, keeping not reply to him or using his money is a good way to respond to his fake love. Hope you can find another good man ~good luck

[Old Guy]

Like I tell my friends, cheat on me, bummer,,, run up a bunch credit cards in my name,,,then I will cheat or anything else to hurt you.