Why the hell do i cont. to feel so????

[fear_21]

Ok, im really sick of this...
I meet my gf now for 6 months. Not everything went best for us, but our love for each other realy supprieses me...Well to be honest, i just cant stop to feel jelous, no matter what i do. I know a few people that i asked them, if she would be able to cheat on me...Everyone sed no way man! I know shes not into this, she loves me very much, she shows me that and everything, and i know its true. But why the hell i still have that f***** feeling in my stomach??? its just like, SHES GONA CHEAT ON YOU! So i think im sick. I had a rel. chip before, my first longer thing, and that was horror for me. She cheated on me and left me without even saying "bye"..cause she wrote it over sms.

What should i do, it drives me crazy, i just fight with myself not to show her that!! I often think shes lieing. What if she does? I dont wanna be fooled...help me!

[Tone]

Quick question - is this the same subject you've started like 3 threads on already?

[Junsui]

I don't know what other threads you have started, but I can relate. I get that feeling too sometimes. It's obvious why you get this way, you said your last relationship was really crappy where she cheated on you and everything. You just have to keep in mind that was the other girl and not this one. It can be difficult to learn to trust again.

[fear_21]

Tone, im sorry, but yes

[fear_21]

I think i still have that "all girls are the same" bullshit, because of that ***** before..

[Junsui]

I'm sure you do.

[Tone]

Gotta learn to let it go... those girls in the past aren't your girl now.

[mini696]

If you believe she'll cheat, then you put out that vibe to her, and she probably will.

You just have to trust her, and stop using your bad experiences from the PAST as an excuse to mistrust her.

[independent]

Yeah, and jealousy is a major turn-off in a relationship.