Oh the pain

[Rosebud]

Well I think for the first time I don't have anything to say..... I wish I could give you some logical advice, but I have writer's cramp on this one. Sorry!!

[Richter]

I just need to ask her how this will effect our friendship.
I need to let her know what she did to make me feel this way.

She already knows that she has hurt me.

She is still one of my best friends and I really care for her. I will make this clear.

[Rosebud]

You said she knew she had hurt your feelings. Why would you need to let her know what she did to you to make you feel the way you do, if she already knows? If you don't let this affect your relationship, it won't. But I agree you should let her know that as well.

[misombra]

she's too old for you.

[Richter]

I called her sorted things out. We are still friends.

Her words
"A definate no" honesty I love
"you dont want to get involved with a 40 year old woman" fair enough

Im now quite relieved and I now know I'm going to heal quite quickly.

[Tone]

Tone told me he does.

You never could keep a secret very well...

*sigh*

[Richter]

Its now the middle of the night and Im a bit freaked.
I just had a dream about her. I need to let these feelings go but but I think Im still quite attached. I must now admit that Im in tremendous amounts of pain and this is going to be slow.

Im just really glad I had the guts to say something before I fell more deeply.

[Tone]

Fella, GET A GRIP!

You're having nightmares and in "tremendous pain" because you got rejected by 1 of the 5 billion women on this planet?