He's ignoring me

[skatehorse_01]

Okay so my boyfriend (or ex, I don't know yet), has just decided to ignore everything from me all weekend. I last talked to him Thursday and he said he would call Friday, but never did. I called him several times on Fri, Sat, and once on Sun and sent text messages because I was worried about him; he's never done anything like this before. We haven't had the easiest relationship...he's bipolar and he's broken up with me twice before but he always comes crawling back and acts like everything is okay. I have written him emails and he won't answer them. I know he is okay because I saw him logged onto facebook yesterday, and he won't respond over that either. I haven't stopped by his house because I really don't want to get hurt anymore. What is going on here??? Pleas help me, I can't think about anything else.

[TAVS]

I don't know anything about Bi-polar disorder, but from what I've read on here previously, it seems you've got to find a way to deal with it. Either that, or respect the fact that it's too much for you to handle, and walk away. There's no crime in that. Sometimes you have to do what's best for you

[Lloyd95]

Waaah!

[carpflounder]

The Bi-polar may account for why he dumps you and crawls back..I can understand this because when I was a teenager my bp was chronic and my life decisions basically mimicked my outrageous mood swings.

I wouldn't pester him with so many calls, texts..and what not. Just emphatically let him know once that you love him unconditionally and leave it at that.

[Tone]

I agree with TAVS.

[carpflounder]

I agree with Lloyd.

[Tone]

I agree with RoseB.

[carpflounder]

RoseB is hot!!....

[Mish]

I agree with Tone on RoseB's Behalf

[Mish]

skatehorse_01, stop being a doormat

Disorder or no disorder, a person has to learn via cosequances of his own actions. I don't know what was so dramatic that made him act this way, but it looks to me like he is taking advantage of you because he always knows that worst comes to worst he can dump you and you will take him back. Stop feeding his ego and show him you are a real person who gets hurt by his ignorance and you are through with taking it....

[whaywardj]

I agree with posts 2, 4 and 10.

[skatehorse_01]

Thanks guys. I appreciate your advice. I'm not letting him walk all over me anymore, but he won't even respond to me. I wrote him an email saying I wanted to know what was going on, and all he said was he wrote me a text and to check if I got it, which I didn't. I am giving him space, I haven't tried to contact him at all besides that email recently, but I expect some sort of answer. After I get it, I'm outta here.

[Rosebud]

LOL... damn I new my ears were rigning for a reason... come on you guys, you made me blush again!!!!

DId anything happen prior to him ignoring you? I know you don't need a reason to flip like that with that disorder but I was just curious. Bi-polar is hard to handle for anyone but that's who he is, and if you can't handle that, then I think you need to find someone else like you said.

[mini696]

Bi-Polar is the "new black".

[carpflounder]

what does "new black" mean?