Originally Posted by
Vika
Maybe I should add that he had a bad childhood. His father tried to kill him and his sister when he was 14 years old. They both survived but his father committed suicide shortly after that. Maybe this shock last a whole life long?
No wander, a shock like this would leave some very life longs scars. And many of these issues of trust whether with parents or partner can be interelated especially later on in life.
It could perhaps be that having suffered such a tremendous blow and lack of trust so early on in life he views that his trust is very sacred and has to be earned rather than given. I think it's a very deep psychological issue and seriously I would recommend proffesional help to deal with it.
Face to face you can talk to him about this as well as ask for proof and for his reasons for his baseless accusations (Innocent until proven guilty is how your a tried in a court), however I doubt this will do any good...
In any case, good luck!
Don't cry, don't regret and don't blame
Weak find the whip, willing find freedom
Towards the sun, carry your name
In warm hands you are given
Ask the wind for the way
Uncertainty's gone, your path will unravel
Accept all as it is and do not blame
God or the Devil
~Born to Live - Mavrik~