My Friend belives that I have Sex with another guy

[shh!]

Yeah, so who cares if she really loves him or not?

Not me. You can't buy love from a marriage agency, although perhaps it could develop. That is how arranged marriages work.

[Junsui]

Yes, that is true.

[Rosebud]

Yea you know I just realized that, I guess I have been slacking lately. If you went through a marriage agency, then there's a lot of thigs your going to be missing in the relationship compared to meeting someone and falling in love, and getting married. Now it makes more sense as to why you weren't showing all the emotions and all that jazz. I still think this is on him though. But if you want to have him as your husband then keep showing emotions, and if not get rid of him and I guess find another one.

[Vika]

Vika - do you feel you are being "abused" or is he simply insecure?

i think its not "abuse". because if i would think so i would have left him very early.

[Vika]

Why did you join a marriage agency thing?

iam 32 and my son is 11 years old. i don`t have lot of opportunities in my life to meet interesting men. i work all day and there are only few men i find interesting, but most of them married or much younger than me. so i went to a marriage agency. it is not true that if you meet a man there that its always without any romantic. of course it takes quite some time to find the right one.

[Rosebud]

well if you weren't giving him emotion then that may tell you right there he may not be the one!

[shh!]

...or she just isn't demonstrative. A lot of people are like this, especially men who are not usually judged negatively for it.

[Junsui]

Yep, very true shh!. My best friend is like that.

[Mish]

So are we saying that there is no room for love in marriage?

In that case maybe we should switch back to the old system, where daughters are given away for marriage for an x amount of goats. At least that would benefit the parents

Vika, what do you need a man for? Describe your reasons...

[Rosebud]

Well or that too Shh, but then why would she all of sudden show all these emotions after he brought it to her attention? I don't know... I'm making too many assumptions here.lol

[shh!]

Maybe because he brought it to her attention so she tried to please him? I dunno..

[Rosebud]

Yeah but if she really isn't that way it won't last for very long. She'll soon go back unless she really wants to change for herself, if she is the "type" that normally restrains emotions.. It could be so many things....