how do i talk

[n00b]

Im 18 and ive had a crush on this girl since last year i told her i liked her and she gave me a note saying if i talk to her more she will go out with me but i dont know what to talk about or anything about talking to a girl i like i get real nervous and sweaty and stuff ca anyone help me?

[Tone]

A) Get over yourself and talk to her and have a chance of going out with her.

B) Don't and never know if it would have worked.

She's just another person, like you and me. And you know she already likes you, my goodness son what the hell is wrong with you - man up and make small conversation!!

[Prodigal]

I agree with Tone, like usual.

Just talk normally... like a conversation you would have with anyone else. I know that it seems different because you like her, but underneath it all, starting a conversation with her is the same as starting one with anyone else.

[Tone]

The trick is convincing yourself she's just another human being... and not focusing on "omg omg omg omg a real life girl omg omg omg omg omg omg omg she's so pretty omg omg omg omg omg" etc.

[n00b]

How do i open up talking to her?

[Junsui]

Say Hi


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[Tone]

"Hey there Jenny, did you see what Bobby did in the hall yesterday?"

"Hey Jenny, do you have notes from 5th period today?"

"Hey Jenny, can you come to the computer lab with me so I can have some internet people talk to you for me?"

;P

Just takes courage, son. When you see her next, just go talk to her, RIGHT AWAY - don't give yourself any time to talk yourself out of it, or find any excuses to not go up to her.

You know she likes you, man - you just gotta take that first step and initiate the conversation with her. It really is as simple as (1) Get over your fear and talk to her or (2) Go on with your life always wondering "what if" and living with regret. You don't even have to worry about rejection either - you KNOW she likes you cause she told you. I was in a very similar situation with my very first ever girlfriend when I was 16. I knew she liked me, all I had to do was make the moves. Lucky for me I did.

[Junsui]

lol I like the third option.

[Tone]

I'd talk to her for him.

Oh I know just the right thing to say...... *evil look*

[n00b]

i dont really know if she likes me or not since its been like 2 months since i told her and i havent talked to her 1 time i ask her out and she say no she might just want to make me feel better and she used to like me.

[Tone]

Well - n00b, how do we find this out?

[Junsui]

Well - n00b, how do we find this out?

By asking a bunch of people on the internet if they think she likes him?

[Tone]

Correct!

Someone did their studies! *gives Junsui a sticker*

[n00b]

By asking a bunch of people on the internet if they think she likes him?

exactly i think...

[Lloyd95]

She's just another person, like you and me.

Well, other than the whole "boobies" thing.