Thank you Hayward
I'm sure many LF members will disagree. But hearing this from you is enough of a booster of self esteem
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07-12-05, 08:05 AM #61
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07-12-05, 08:36 AM #62
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Well guys I'm kind of impressed that some of you (I'm looking you Tone) remember the situation perfectly....you know since i keep posting new information in each post.
Mishanya, i appreciate that your viewpoint is different from the rest. Its your posts that make me go with caution. But let me clear something up, I had an hour long conversation with her in which she assured me the cofusion arose not because she was trying to decide who to go with, but the confusion arose when her ex bf started talking to her again and she realized how much has changed in the last 6 months: parents split up, boyfriend left her, and her home is completely wrecked, and shes away from me.
IMHO there is nothing wrong with being confused in a state like this, its not bratty but damn if my parents split up and my house was destroyed by a hurricane then I would be pretty damn confused myself.
BTW, to whoever asked I'm muslim. Muslim by birth, but unfortunately i have to say that although god is aLWAYS on my mind and heart, I fail to be a GOOD muslim most of the time nowadays.
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07-12-05, 08:38 AM #63
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I don't disagree that your wise, I just don't always agree on the same things as you!
The factor is..he said she mentioned she had talked with her Ex around the same time she was needing space to think. I don't see it as a trust issue because she told him all this... she told him she had talked to her ex, and she had a ton of stuff to think about. Come on she probably lost a lot from Katrina and has been under a lot of pressure (family, friends..etc..). It is very NORMAL to say I need to step back fro a little bit to figure some things out if you feel overwhelmed.. She never broke up with him, in fact she came to him and asked him to help her through her problems. She was with her Ex for 3 years there will be some significant feelings for that person no matter what they are...maybe she wasn't ready for this new relationship ..who knows
All I think Tone and I are trying to say is that after 3 months..you don't want to keep nagging about the same thing just IN CASE it MAY happen in the future...why not make sure they know how you feel and then go with the flow. If something comes up then deal with it. You can't live your life on what if's.. if you did you'd be worried and paranoid about little thing in the world. just my MO.
You know your still my buddy Mish!!!!!!
EDIT: I'm glad you guys talked and everything is working out for you..with this going on it's very good your showing your their for her which will prevent these things from coming up again in the future...so i tell you....GOOD JOB!Last edited by Rosebud; 07-12-05 at 08:41 AM.
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07-12-05, 08:52 AM #64
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I know, I love you too...
Originally Posted by Rosebud
You know your still my buddy Mish!!!!!!
Don't cry, don't regret and don't blame
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07-12-05, 08:56 AM #65
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better!!!!
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Yes, we should save our strength for more passionate moments Originally Posted by Rosebud
better!!!!
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Good luck.
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07-12-05, 12:16 PM #68
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Luck? Who needs it... Where there's a will there's a way
Don't cry, don't regret and don't blame
Weak find the whip, willing find freedom
Towards the sun, carry your name
In warm hands you are given
Ask the wind for the way
Uncertainty's gone, your path will unravel
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07-12-05, 12:19 PM #69
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Who needs anything?
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My. Whence the glib tone, Junsui?
Speak less. Say more.
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I wonder what things would emerge if we put you, RSK and Debunkt in a room together for time. All three of you guys sometimes amaze me with the things you say. As if you're cut from the same cloth, somehow. Originally Posted by Mishanya
Thank you Hayward
I'm sure many LF members will disagree. But hearing this from you is enough of a booster of self esteemSpeak less. Say more.
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07-12-05, 02:04 PM #72
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I protest at this subtle hint yet-to-develope-into a baseless accusation of myself, RSK and debunkt being the same person Originally Posted by whaywardj
Don't cry, don't regret and don't blame
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Starving people who need food Originally Posted by Junsui
Is this like a game? Then it's my turn!!!
Who thinks that "Shoot to kill powers if police think you dress like a terrorist" are dumb?
Don't cry, don't regret and don't blame
Weak find the whip, willing find freedom
Towards the sun, carry your name
In warm hands you are given
Ask the wind for the way
Uncertainty's gone, your path will unravel
Accept all as it is and do not blame
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Hm. That never occurred to me. But now that you mention it, I wonder... Originally Posted by Mishanya
I protest at this subtle hint yet-to-develope-into a baseless accusation of myself, RSK and debunkt being the same personSpeak less. Say more.
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07-12-05, 02:15 PM #75
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Well, at least add Tone into the mix... Originally Posted by whaywardj
Don't cry, don't regret and don't blame
Weak find the whip, willing find freedom
Towards the sun, carry your name
In warm hands you are given
Ask the wind for the way
Uncertainty's gone, your path will unravel
Accept all as it is and do not blame
God or the Devil
~Born to Live - Mavrik~
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