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    Re: am i so ugly?

    Originally posted by mateja
    am is so disgustingly ugly?
    You look average buddy... if you'd smile instead of frown you'd look a lot better. But I guess your post really isn't about your looks, its, moreso, about why you don't get women. I'll tell you, you confidence sucks and you have an external locus of control. First off, you seem afraid to make the approach or approach very little and don't do well. Second of all. you have an external locus of control. This means that when something goes wrong, instead of focusing on something you are responsible (the way you act), you focus on something that you have little control over (the way your face is built). From your quote (reprinted above) I can see a lot of resentment over lack of success and you blame it on your looks. Mateja, you're no Brad Pitt... but you're no Joe Pesci either. You're average... girls wouldn't dump you because they thought you weren't goodlooking enough. Your hardships lie with you, not how you look. Its time for you to internalize your locus of control and start accepting responsibility for things in your life. If you don't accept who you are, how can you change it?

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    actually i still love to hear everyone talk shiet to each other. raverboy
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    No, you're not ugly at all.
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    Originally posted by leight69
    ok........man someone lock this thread up already ...

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    ROLF!! Where do you get thoses animated objects! I LOVE THEM!
    "Remember always, that you not only have the right to be an individual, you have an obligation to be one."
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    " It's not who we are that holds us back, it's who we think we're not."
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    : hhhmmm....
    "Remember always, that you not only have the right to be an individual, you have an obligation to be one."
    - - Eleanor Roosevelt
    " It's not who we are that holds us back, it's who we think we're not."
    - - Michael Nolan
    "...to love and lose, is better than not to love at all..." .... Lord, whats his name....
    " The world is big... I want to see all of it before it gets dark." -- John Muir

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    lol

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    How completely mysterious ....
    Your not going to tell me are you?
    "Remember always, that you not only have the right to be an individual, you have an obligation to be one."
    - - Eleanor Roosevelt
    " It's not who we are that holds us back, it's who we think we're not."
    - - Michael Nolan
    "...to love and lose, is better than not to love at all..." .... Lord, whats his name....
    " The world is big... I want to see all of it before it gets dark." -- John Muir

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    Oh man, it's all in your confidance level. That's what a woman will also see. How you carry yourself. Yea, looks are a first impression, but you're not ugly. God created everyone to be unique and special. It would be a dull world if we all looked the same.
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    k ur not ugly but what does bug me is when someone has to come to a dating forum for attention on their 'looks.' you should be happy that you don't have a disease or a condition or something that altars what you look like. b/c to me, when ppl do the 'am i ugly?' thing, it's very selfish.

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    Haha, at first I was gonna say "no you're not, just get a life man"
    but then I read something about external locus of control and I figured someone's trying to act like a smartass using all of those dumb communication terms! LOL -
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    Ugly???? Nah, just lack of self confidence I'd say...
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