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Thread: Guy asking a Girl older then him out??????

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    Guy asking a Girl older then him out??????

    So are girls interested in guys younger then em. like 2 grades??

    and how would the guy get the girls attention and what would be the best way to start the conversation... if you go to the same school and all? thanks.

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    depends on the girls..

    my ex was two years older than me. im 15 and shes 17, it didnt really effect us much but i knew it was gonna later on.. i think its alright if the both of u are 18.. cuz when ur 18 your gonna meet alot of ppl, new ppl and interesting ppl.. then she might hurt you there, just becareful.

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    you reminded me of my early HS years when everybody thought i was 16 but i was 13 in fact and some older girls were after me .

    whatever you do , DONT lie to her about it , if she thinks your older she might go out with you, but once she knows the truth she will most probably back away ... if you start off without lies , then she will not be dissapointed at you ...

    plus ... wouldnt she see your books that are from math 3 instead of math 5 ?!?!

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    haha i lied to mine at first trust me.. i got lucky thats all i would say

    i look like 19ish but im really 15, i was the one kid who had facial hair like grade 6..

    but i told her like 2 weeks into dating and wow i felt like crap.. i did it for a good reason though. i wanted to get with her... but it was pointless if i look at it..

    just be real as you can..

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    My bf is 3 years younger than me.

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    after a certain age , it doesnt matter anymore , when your in HS , 3 years is a BIG gap ... difference between being able to go out and having a kid watching cartoons after school .

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    A general rule of mine is that I don't date younger men. Men mature slower than woman and for that reason for me to stay interested I need someone around the same maturity level as myself.
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    So you wouldn't date me??

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    I thought you were my age? and even still your a little more mature then most!
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    I'm 23

    ;P

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    Oh!...LOL even still, your a differnet story!!
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    Thanks RoseB.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Rosebud
    A general rule of mine is that I don't date younger men. Men mature slower than woman and for that reason for me to stay interested I need someone around the same maturity level as myself.
    Same for me. Actually, they need to be considerably older.
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    I've dated both.

    Now the younger man I'm dating is more responsible and mature than I am (I've regressed rather than matured as I've aged!!!). Besides, I like someone to feel young with.

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    cool

    i coulnt lie beacuase shes seen me around and school small and all she would know. but i just havnt talked to her. All i got is hey or hi dont know what to say after, any help? plus she is super beautiful!!!

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