ex is marrying another.

[Hugo Pickle]

What!! So you all ready have a live in boyfriend and you just wanted a little ****en lame as pick me up like some spoiled, rich *****, lame ass, ****en loser. What a piece of shit. You wasted my time for you're needy dumb ass ****en game.

Well let me tell you what, you’re a ****en lame *****. You know why your ex found a wife so fast? Because he dumped your lame, bitchy, needy ass. No wonder you made two posts about your damn ex when you have a live in boyfriend. Because your upset that it only took him 6 months to find someone a shit load better than you. You want to know why he found someone so fast? It isn’t because the girl he found is all that, it is because the girl he found is just average, but compared to your needy, lame, bitchy ass, his new girl is like an angel sent from Heaven.

Just like your old boyfriend, you can bet you won’t see me wasting any of my precious time on you either. So long you needy, stupid, lame *****.

[vashti]

HEY YOU STUPID ASS!! You have no idea what you are talking about. Go away!! You are annoying! This post was meant for the regular posters, anyway, not for some misinformed newbie who doesn't even know anyone yet.

Ugh! If I were Santa, you would definitely be getting a lump of coal.

[misombra]

What!! So you all ready have a live in boyfriend and you just wanted a little ****en lame as pick me up like some spoiled, rich *****, lame ass, ****en loser. What a piece of shit. You wasted my time for you're needy dumb ass ****en game.

Well let me tell you what, you’re a ****en lame *****. You know why your ex found a wife so fast? Because he dumped your lame, bitchy, needy ass. No wonder you made two posts about your damn ex when you have a live in boyfriend. Because your upset that it only took him 6 months to find someone a shit load better than you. You want to know why he found someone so fast? It isn’t because the girl he found is all that, it is because the girl he found is just average, but compared to your needy, lame, bitchy ass, his new girl is like an angel sent from Heaven.

Just like your old boyfriend, you can bet you won’t see me wasting any of my precious time on you either. So long you needy, stupid, lame *****.

wasted your time of wacking off to internet porn again? sorry.

try coming up with some better comebacks than lame-ass b.itch. it's hardly insulting coming from you. besides i'm aweful proud to be a bitc.h. so i'm glad you won't be taking time out of your busy schedule of pulling on your balls to reply to me, because you're stupid. bye.

[clynn]

holy moley

[Tone]

holy moley

What a guy, eh?

I hope when I grow up I can be as tough of a man as Hugo to (attempt to) pick on girls over THE INTERNET and call them mean names when I know relatively nothing about them.

[nomas]

Ha ha..I had forgotten all about the ironies of this place. This guy blames misombra to have wasted his time, when all he had to do was read the links that sombra appropriately referenced and he would have gotten the full story. See, it's like this, Pickle, if you choose to write a long comment on part of the topic, you can't blame the thread creator who made it easy for you to have chosen to invest a little bit of your precious time and have read the entire topic before commenting.

Measure twice, cut once.

[misombra]

eh, i think hugo is just one of those people that tries to scare people into thinking he's cool.

as i advise everyone, just skip right over his posts. if you don't you will regret it for the rest of your life.

[indigosoul]

What!! So you all ready have a live in boyfriend and you just wanted a little ****en lame as pick me up like some spoiled, rich *****, lame ass, ****en loser. What a piece of shit. You wasted my time for you're needy dumb ass ****en game.

Well let me tell you what, you’re a ****en lame *****. You know why your ex found a wife so fast? Because he dumped your lame, bitchy, needy ass. No wonder you made two posts about your damn ex when you have a live in boyfriend. Because your upset that it only took him 6 months to find someone a shit load better than you. You want to know why he found someone so fast? It isn’t because the girl he found is all that, it is because the girl he found is just average, but compared to your needy, lame, bitchy ass, his new girl is like an angel sent from Heaven.

Just like your old boyfriend, you can bet you won’t see me wasting any of my precious time on you either. So long you needy, stupid, lame *****.

You need to get out of this funk your in. Focus on you. Go out and meet other people. Learn that new hobby that you always wanted to do. Start working out. Don’t get me wrong, breaking up sucks ass. Seeing people you dated or almost married before happily married when your not can get to you also. But do you remember why all this gets to you? It is because your wallowing in the past.

Think about it like this. What if you were a policemen and your partner got killed while you and he/she were on a call? What would the psychologist recommend the department do with you? Kick you off the force? Give you a year off? Hell No! They would have your ass taking the toughest calls soon after the funeral so you would be too busy saving your own life and the life of your new partner to wallow in self doubt and regret about would haves and should haves.

Other parts of life are no different except that there is no one to force you to do what is best for you. Most people don’t have that tough ass friend to push them in the right direction. They are unfortunately left to do this for themselves.

You know what you have to do. You know what is best for you. You have to pick yourself back up out of the trough of self doubt and get back in the game with full force. You don’t have to date right away, but do all the other things that you know you need or want to do. Work out with a vengeance, fix up your place, get your life in order, call your friends back and get new friends as well. As soon as you think you need just one more week before you are ready to date again then just get back in there and date date date.

Your not alone, we all have to do this. Remember that self doubt, and misery never helps you get what you want and need. Buck up and take full charge of your life and happiness, it is the only way.


Good luck

WTF?? Are you multiple personality? You need a shrink. Come back once your meds stabilize and you've decided if you are truly an as$hole or not.

[indigosoul]

Miso, that news sucks. I'd be upset for sure. Totally understandable.

:hugs:

[misombra]

thanks indigo. i'm getting better by the day. i don't think about it as much. i've come to peace with the fact that there's somebody better for me than him and someone better for him than me.