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    differ between immature and humrous and experience in dating at 25

    i'm a 25 yr old guy not successful wiht women at all-started talkinign to em and ask some out recently -all gotten no's but one big big girl who said yes-wasn't interested her at all-not sure why i asked her out.
    what do u girls think of uninexperienced guys or a guy like me at this age-innocent and sweet or "what a joke" lol hahah,i guess women can tell sooner or later by ur actions-can;t kiss etc....

    what the differ between a guy that likes to make jokes and makes ppl laugh and a guy that would be declared as immature-whats the difference. i mean isn;t making jokes kind of immature. i mean what is immature and what is considered joking and humurous kind of person. examples pleaseee,
    example-gold digger girl i was talkin with online i told her i wanted to meet up with her dwtn to go windown shoppin and maybe catch something to eat-she says what for-then says yea if u carry my bags and pay for my stuff, i say no -but if i was to carry on a plan of sayin meet me dwnt but never show up-is that called immature. i mean i was just teaching her a lesson-she was a total annoying person-b**** .
    i mean what is immature and what is joking and humuourous

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    Immature is someone who is doing something that the someone who is calling them immature doesn't like. While a funny person is someone who is doing exactly the same thing but it just so happens that the viewer likes what they see. Get it?
    "Why are you an atheist?"
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    Tom, your 25. It is time to put you one the “Program.”

    Here is what you need to do.

    1. Stop thinking.
    2. Start Doing the following.

    Visit the following web sites for information and to keep your mind fresh with ideas.
    [url]http://www.askmen.com/dating/index.html[/url]

    Doc Loves One liners

    Buy inexpensive gifts for her birthday, but don’t forget the card and cake
    Give her what she needs, not what she wants
    She will be relentless about her agenda, but be a challenge
    No answering machine messages

    Dating steps
    1. phone number (ask any woman that you are interested in)
    2. call 5-7 days later
    3. First date
    3a. Make her comfortable, be sincere (fake it)
    3b. Focus on trying to figure out if she is what you want, not answering her questions or letting her take control, but not by asking questions, by observing.

    4. Let them talk to you, get phone number, leave
    5. Never try to keep someone who doesn’t want to keep you
    6. Be affectionate but with self control
    7. Affection is a females number one requirement after respect.
    8. Only give affection to her after she is has 90 percent interest level in you.
    9. Affection is not a prelude to sex.
    10. Law of reality, look at things the way they are. Not what you think they are.
    11. Bottom line, “what does she do?” “How does she treat you?”
    12. Focus on increasing her interest level.
    13. Don’t project your interest level
    14. One compliment per night.
    15. Don’t apologize
    16. Keep your interest level under control, the higher your interest level, the lower your perceptions of her and how she is behaving.
    17. It’s the little things that she remembers and that you forget
    18. The friendly war goes on until her interest level gets 90 percent not yours
    19. Women fall in love slower than men.
    20. Women are about seniority, keep yap shut, they talk you listen
    21. The less they know the longer they last in the dating game.
    22. You can change interest level but you can’t change attitude.


    What you should be looking for in her?
    1. Integrity (honesty, does what she says)
    2. Giving (does things for you)
    3. Supportive
    4. Unstructured (doesn’t have inflexible perceptions of life)(freedom)
    5. High interest in you.
    Put up a profile on this site and start living your life and networking.
    [url]http://www.myspace.com/[/url]

    Read what this site has to say since you are a beginner and need a lot of help.

    [url]http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/index.php[/url]
    - You are the only one that can change your life. You think it sucks, change it by reading on.
    - You must be happy with yourself before others will be happy with you.
    - You must know that you do not need a girl to love you.
    - You must know that you do not need to love a girl.
    - You must find a way to be positive in everything.
    - You must live each day as if it was your last chance
    .

    Always work out and have a planned routine that works on your weaknesses, Don’t just throw weights around.
    Have a plan for your life, your carrier, your hobbies, your time off, and your dates.
    Work that freaken plan like a fiend who has been without his heroin fix for 8 days.

    The bottom line? You need to think about what you want and bust your ass to get it. Get up and live your life.

    Remember the following phrases and say them to yourself often.

    1. You only live once.
    2. You will never be this young again.
    3. Now get off your ass and do it.
    4. (While you are doing what it is that betters you) say,
    “It ain’t shit until it is done.” (Meaning that it doesn’t better you until you Finnish it.)

    Good luck, you are not alone, it’s called life, and it is work for us all.


    PS: This is the kind of confidence that you need to have


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    look at that sneaky little bastard , i hate cats .

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    I hate those online recipies how to get women, these things may ruin your thinking. Thoughts should evolve naturally, not by pursuing them.

    And cats are cool when they aren't horny.
    Don't expect anything.

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    What they don't show you is the next picture were that cat gets owned! lol
    "Why are you an atheist?"
    "because I paid attention in science class."

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    hahahahaha, yes the cat probably did get owned, but can't blame the cat for his courage.

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    OV i was impressed with your first post. Nice advice

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    Quote Originally Posted by TyRuK
    OV i was impressed with your first post. Nice advice
    Thanks.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Late_vamp
    look at that sneaky little bastard , i hate cats .
    Ditto.
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