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    Am I being played??? ...

    Greetings all ...

    I'll keep this simple ... Months ago, I met this girl and we started hanging out .. Then I tried to take it to the next level, and I got shot down. A few days ago, she called me, and we went out the next day ... Needless to say, we spent a lot of time togther, and we both had a blast ...

    Now here is the problem, as the evening went on, we were talking about relationships, at one point she asked me if I see us heading for a relationshio .. I told her I would like to think so, she responed with she sees us on that road ... A few hours later she asked me if I would take the risk of getting hurt with her ... I answered the wrong way, I said yes, then I asked her the same question ... She answered yes and we started kissing ...

    Now .... Should I be concerned that she is just playing a game ... HELP !!! ...

    The biggest problem, is now I can't seem to get her off my mind ...

    Thx in advance ...
    They may forget what you said, but, they will never forget how you made them feel ...

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    I don't think so.

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    how old is she ? she sounds rather hesitant

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    She is 21 and I am 25
    They may forget what you said, but, they will never forget how you made them feel ...

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    She seems hesitant about getting into a relationship. She may have had previous experiences that caused this. I am unsure whether she is "playing" you or not because I do not have enough information to gage that. Get to know her better first before you jump in too deep.

    You said you answered her the wrong way when she asked if you would get hurt with her. That means you don't want to get hurt with her. You should talk to her about what happened that evening. She could have meant something entirely different than what you thought she meant.

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    I think she wasn't ready for a relationship when u got shot down the first time. Maybe since then she had time to think about it and thats when she decided to contact you.......and take a chance.

    Go with it....see what happens......
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    I think you have grown on her man. And I am really happy for you! Good on you mate!

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    i think you're ok...probably...
    You don't scare me. I got chunks of guys like you in my stool!

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