Part 2, Now I'm getting mad!

[vashti]

Read the thread, Lloyd. He emptied their bank account and blew all of their money when his job is in jeopardy.

By the way - since you've been gone, Hugo Pickle was placed on temporary ban.

[Lloyd95]

The thread is 5, now 6 pages! You know how I am with reading; I need cliff notes version.

Hugo was my favorite poster too. How sad.

[Tone]

Read the thread, Lloyd. He emptied their bank account and blew all of their money when his job is in jeopardy.

Yeah - and he said the reason he did it was just to hurt her (RoseB).

So what do we have here:

1) He blows the **** UP over our precious little RoseB FLIRTING with some guy while INTOXICATED. (If he read LF would he flip out too??? If he read us goofin around??)

2) Then he hears from his friends that she slept with this guy and chooses to believe them over her.

3) Tells her it's over, not gonna give her a chance to even explain - doesn't want to talk, leaves her stranded with no vehicle.

4) Pisses away their bank account JUST TO SPITE her.

5) Comes crawling back and wants to work things out now.


So, yeah, he better be scrubbin the ****in floors for RoseB.

[Lloyd95]

Hold on Tone, 1-3 isn't too bad, IMO. It's just hiim overreacting. It's an argument along the same lines as I'm sure most couples have had. I agree with him that leaviing and cooling off was a good move. Wasting money to spite her was dumb, but I don't think its "the worst that could have happened."

[TAVS]

I agree with Lloyd. Besides being INTOXICATED isn't an excuse; didn't we have this discussion before?

So where do I read to find out what he spent the money on? A 4x4 with 38" Boggers?

[Lloyd95]

Whats a "Bogger"? I thought you said "boogers".

[Tone]

Of course it isn't the worse that could happen. And I also agree it was good for him to cool off - but to leave her stranded and then empty the bank account at a casino?

No, that's just stupid.

[Lloyd95]

What if he won at the casino? And could've bought them a great big house?

[Tone]

LoL then RoseB would be the one cleanin up after him.

[TAVS]

Whats a "Bogger"? I thought you said "boogers".

Mud Boggers; aka tires.
Oh I love the Casino; why didn't he invite me?

[Lloyd95]

38 inch tires? I thought 33's were big.
You're such a hick.

[TAVS]

38 inch tires? I thought 33's were big.
You're such a hick.

I have 33" That's about the smallest tire you can effectively 4x4 with.

[vashti]

Wasting money to spite her was dumb, but I don't think its "the worst that could have happened."

I think it is worse than dumb when you are talking about the money that is needed to feed your baby with, but maybe that's just me.

[clynn]

and where is rb?

It is true. I think he did overreact and spending the money was irrational.

But....if this is a turning point???/ Maybe? This is the impetus for the change they need.

[Rosebud]

I agree with Lloyd. Besides being INTOXICATED isn't an excuse; didn't we have this discussion before?

I never said Being intoxicated was my excuse and here was exactly what happened or how I flirted that I posted previously:

LOL did I say hit on? no, I said flirt..want to know how I flirt? I say" yes you are a cutie, but I'm too old for you", and "if I was your age, and single you wouldn't have a chance". add in a couple giggles and that's the night aside from him asking my friend if he had a chance to get with me, which soon after I left. So if you somewhere in there that I flirted for my own benefit please tell me... As I said before it was innocent and the reason I blurted it on the phone to my SO was to be honest about it no matter how trivial it was..because I am serious about him and have a lot of respect fro him and myself.

And to add the cliff notes:

He didn't believe his friends that I slept with that guy, he just talked to them before me and got all kinds of added stories.

He did leave me without a vehicle from the time he left for work on Thursday until about noon Friday.

And he spent quite a bit at the casino and the rest on hanging out with his friends which left us nothing for bills that needed to paid this week.