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Thread: I'm confused on what to believe

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    I'm confused on what to believe

    Ok, so about 2 weeks ago, my gf broke up with me and she said it was because she didn't really want to have a bf right now, and that we should've slowed down, which she asked me to, and I tried, but I guess I did something wrong?
    (btw we had been dating for 5 months, August) And now I asked her out again and if we could try this again and she said yes. And when I ask her what we can do to avoid this again she says she wants to talk when we're actually near eachother, and when I ask why we broke up, and what changed, she says idk, I guess I just changed my mind.

    What the hell am I going to do now...?

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    play it cool.......................????/

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    What do you want to do?
    "Oh Lord it's hard to be humble, when you're perfect in every way. I can't wait to look in the mirror, cause I get better loking each day. To know me is to love me, I must be a hell of a man. Oh Lord it's hard to be humble, but I'm doing the best that I can." Mac Davis

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    Quote Originally Posted by TAVS
    What do you want to do?
    No, I'm just confused on what I should do, as in, stay with her, try to figure out what the hell went wrong (or why the hell she doesn't know what happened) and should I try to stay together with her again?

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    And... how exactly are WE going to tell YOU what YOU want to do.....?

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    First think about what you want to do. Then think about what could result from each of those things. Choose a reasonable result you would be content with and go from there.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tone
    And... how exactly are WE going to tell YOU what YOU want to do.....?
    No, no, u miss my point, I'm asking y'all what you think I should do about this.
    Does she really want me?

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    We can't tell you that, silly!

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    Quote Originally Posted by clynn
    We can't tell you that, silly!
    you're missing the point is what should I do, should I just go with it and see how things turn out, or what?

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    If you want to , then you should? Will it work out? Who knows?

    You probably have more control in this situation than you realize.

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    5 Months is too early to be calling someone your girlfriend anyhow. You shouldnt even have a girlfriend until you are about 28 or older.
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