boring sex?

[xwfuro]

well me and this girl arent even together anymore we just had a sketchy relationship in general but she never got any better to fill you guys in she would maybe say one or two thing "dirty" but otherwise she was like a corpse and when she would get on top she didnt know any positions lol it was not worth my time to teach

[chelsee]

lol, are you sure you don't want to teach? she might be a good-learner.

[King Zarathu]

bah, they're already done. gg -.-

[xwfuro]

well she may be but like idk it was like we used to date and then we became **** buddies yet she still sucked, now she has a boyfriend so i kind of cant do that with her anymore haha. maybe he will show her whats up but i doubt it cuz everytime i see them they dont even talk, maybe the will do like FOB says

"turn off the lights and turn off the shyness, cuz all of our moves make up for the silence"

[clynn]

maybe you were shy with her also

[XPixiedustX]

Guys can be soo shallow!

Just cuz a girl is wet does not mean she is enjoying sex, or that your any good, some women are just naturally really wet. Plus "**** buddies"( I hate this term!) lack the one thing that is so essential for arousal and participation...feelings. Several studies show that sex is less enjoyable when there are no feelings involved. A guy once told me that him and a girl( not really his gf) were trying to have sex, and she just could not get him aroused and she was supposedly really "hot", I theorize it was cuz there were no feelings, nothing beyond lust(if even that was present) , so while maybe they did have sex at other times...chances are he was just horny and she had nothing to do with it, plus studies show couples in love generally enjoy sex more then those just having affairs, or those with multiple partners.

[Illusional]

basically you just suck. you're not working your magic and she's getting bored on the same missionary position. well... that is one way to look at it. however, ...

when you go to a party there are always loud drunk people, and there are people in the corner whose too afraid to make a peep. when it comes to sex people come in all sorts of personalities.

raverboy

[XPixiedustX]

I back what illusional said!

[GrkScorp]

lol.. yeah.. I back what each girl said about this issue.. lol

some guys just suck.. including me.. but at least I never stop to think that my gf must just be lazy, or bad.. I can accept that I just suck..

confusious say.. hey.. be a man!!!.. do the right thing!!!

he should stop thinking that he is some Angelo the Third, and start admiting that he may just not be that great in sex.. which is not such a big deal.. there's always other stuff.. like cleaning bird poop, or working with retarted puppies, or accounting...

[RobW]

When I met my wife almost 7 years ago she was the same way. She didn't know what she was supposed to do, she was very nervous. She didn't know WHAT to do. Early on her and I watched a little porno and she relaxed a bit and she after a few months started to relax.

7 years down the road when we make love and she is in a neurotic mood or in a obsessive compulsive fit, she would go back to laying there like a cold fish.

Try messageing her and telling her how hot she is, show a lot of foreplay, that is the key. She will want to rip your clothes off after being teased for a prolonged period.

My 2 cents.