Living your Best life as a Single

[emmadsexy]

Living your Best life as a Single

You’re over 35 and single for the first time in years, this is definitely something that can be daunting and perhaps will be one of your life’s greatest challenges.

You’ve gone over the emotional upheaval of the divorce, or perhaps mourned the death of your significant other and now your best friend has a friend of a friend who’s just “perfect” or they’re suggesting things from speed dating events, to going online to find your new mate.

The question to ask yourself is not whether you are seeking another serious relationship, but have you established a serious relationship filled with joy, happiness and fulfillment with yourself!

Yes, YOU! You who took care of others, maybe lived through another’s dreams, rather than fulfilling your own. You, who lived for the “audience” and not for yourself, were living an illusion of “together” life when in reality you were alone all along….Well this is a new day, it’s your time to live your best possible life!

What images are conjured by thinking of “living your best possible life”?

Changing residence, living in another city, province, even a different country. Changing jobs, getting a new career, traveling, taking piano lessons, getting that degree, making new friends, getting rid of the old ones (but you didn’t know how) well dear friends, this is the perfect time to do so. A cleansing of the “old” life and into the new!

This journey you’re embarking on is a road that you are in total control of! It should be brimming over with self discovery, improvement, which will empower and excite you at each and every turn.

As a life coach, I have heard over and over from women how being single is lonely. Being in a relationship just for the sake of being in one does not guarantee you will not feel lonely.

How many times have you felt truly alone and lonely with your significant other sitting in the same room? If it’s a presence you need, get a pet, leave the radio on….but don’t settle!

Single life allows you to expand, fly higher than you ever have before…..Ladies, get out of your shell, find out what your passion is, what stirs you, what is your heart’s desire? By answering some of these questions and looking deep within yourself you will you be able to begin making the alterations, additions and adjustments to your life!

Once you’ve attained what you’ve aspired to, your living your authentic yourself, are relishing in your lovely, new surroundings and you feel the desire to date and/or be a long term relationship… Well, that’s another article.

Remember, at the end of the day, be proud, revel, live well and be happy!

"The more I know of the world and myself, the more I am convinced that I shall never see a man whom I can really love" Jane Austen

[Ellynn]

Amen...!!

And people think IM crazy for being single.....but yet the friends of mine who insist on not being single at all.......are the ones with all the drama all the time! I mean who needs it?

Thank you for putting it out there that its OK to be single!

[King Zarathu]

This guy was a spammer... Somebody close this thread. You should've seen the "I love getting ****ed by my daddy and tasting his cum" thread at 3:30 this morning. What a sicko.

[DutchBoY]

lmao would've loved reading that....could use a laugh

[clynn]

yah, there is a bunch of drivel from this person isn't there

[Ellynn]

Maybe this person did post other crap.....but I think this post is something that actually makes some sense.....whether your over 35........or your younger and just don't want to deal with the drama. It conveys an important message..and its true....WHY settle?

[Cybog]

This guy's IP has been banned. Most all of his threads had advertisements on them that I deleted. Since some of his information is (kind of) sound, the ones that weren't total spam or incenstious I left open and edited the links.

[King Zarathu]

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