at best..2 out of 5 >_<

[Arx Fatalis]

alright here it goes..

i was talking to my girlfriend today everything was going smoothly for the three or so hours we had been on the phone..and then we get on the topic of sex

so whilst we're discussing what positions we like and what not i get a bit curious as to if i make her cum everytime we have sex..given our sexual periods are 10-15 minutes at best vecause of her parents being around the house

so i ask "you know im curious on a good day we manage to have sex a good 5 times and what im wondering is since ur such a screamer do you actually cum everytime we engage in sex.."

her reply is.."umm on a good day?"

my reply is "yeah thats what i said now can you stop stalling and answer?!?"

her reply is "well i'd say two out of five at best"

and that my friends...left me totally dumb stricken i mean it wouldnt be so bad if it was three out of five but only TWO?!?! this depresses me much i fear that im just not giving enough satisfaction she say's i am but i mean come on..i dont think this is common with most other guys..

i dont know what to do she say's it's ok and she loves me the way i am and that bullshit..blahblahblah but i know im lacking in this department what do i so? advice? apreciated much

[Only-virgins]

5 in a freaking day?! WTF?! My dick wants to fall off at 3 times.

[Arx Fatalis]

>_> uhmm exercise

[Debunkt]

When are you people gonna learn that an orgasm is only a small part of sex and not the soul purpose of sex. Do you feel good when having sex without having to orgasm? Yes. So what makes you think she won't enjoy it without having one either? Some women just don't orgasm a lot. In fact, most don't, especially as young as you sound. So don't worry about it.

[King Zarathu]

You should learn from me, that would fix everything

[Cybog]

If you are talking to any broad on the phone for 3 hours you have some other deep seeded "pussification" issues that need to be addressed anyhow. Is your day so mundane that you actually have to talk to a broad for 3 hours for entertainment?

Do you have nothing better to do with your time than yammer about bullshit to some chick you won't be with in 6 months anyhow?

[Arx Fatalis]

If you are talking to any broad on the phone for 3 hours you have some other deep seeded "pussification" issues that need to be addressed anyhow. Is your day so mundane that you actually have to talk to a broad for 3 hours for entertainment?

Do you have nothing better to do with your time than yammer about bullshit to some chick you won't be with in 6 months anyhow?

i have been with this girl for 1 and a half years thank you very much its pretty shitty and ignorant for you to assume like you do

[Neveryoumind]

I know it would be a bad feeling if you think you don't satisfy her with sex.

But, maybe it is her and not you? I was talking to a chick friend once and she told me she had never gotten an orgasm from sex. I can't comment on how many partners she's had but still that is saying that all women are different and that it is not always your fault.

And, if she is screaming, and not faking it, then that means she is already having heaps of pleasure but maybe just doesn't reach that extreme climax.

Judging from how my ex was "expressing" herself during sex, it seems she gets more pleasure without an orgasm than I do when I just cum!

[Converse]

Just because a girl doesn't cum doesn't mean it doesn't feel good. Don't worry dude. At least she was being honest and you did ask, would you belive her if she said "Yeah I cum every single time we have sex" I doubht you'd belive her then you'd feel the same as you do now. Chill out and try to enjoy it.

[Debunkt]

If you are talking to any broad on the phone for 3 hours you have some other deep seeded "pussification" issues that need to be addressed anyhow. Is your day so mundane that you actually have to talk to a broad for 3 hours for entertainment?

Do you have nothing better to do with your time than yammer about bullshit to some chick you won't be with in 6 months anyhow?

Why do you always have to display so much machismo? We get it, cybog. You're a manly man. And apparently any affection held towards women, or doing nice things for them or getting along with them well somehow makes you a pussy or a homosexual. Get over it. A sign of a good relationship is getting along well enough to have a best friend as well as a lover. Believe it or not, lots of PEOPLE enjoy spending lots of time doing anything with their partner (including talking), not just women. And contrary to your beliefs, you have to compromise in relationships, and not be stubborn and assume you'll get everything you want. Welcome to 2006.

[Arx Fatalis]

thanks for the replies guys! i love my girlfriend very much and im just worried if im not giving enough satisfaction and the reason i spend alot of time on the phone is because her parents are divorced and her mom hates me and she only goes to her dad's every two weeks so i try and keep close on the phone

[Late_vamp]

hey im a guy and even i dont cum everytime i have sex ... no wait , is that normal ?

lol anyways .... usually its because i take too long ... i blame it on my shower head ... you know after years of strong water pressure ... your dick might become less sensible to pain ... or pleasure . dont worry i got lots of wood to pass around (knocks on wood) .