wtf should i do?

[vashti]

It means that she Doesn't like you like that

Yup. Sorry, my friend. Move on.

[bugmenot]

well, i'm trying to, if I can just not see her for a week, I should be ok, but I know that atm I'm like putty in her hands, and i'm really trying to change that!

Thanks for your help!

[bugmenot]

well, i tried and i think its working! i am still having a bit of trouble talking to her (worried that the old feelings might return) but im def making progress! thanks for all your help!

[Gigabitch]

Good for you! It takes a lot of character to walk away from something unhealthy.

[bugmenot]

Good for you! It takes a lot of character to walk away from something unhealthy.

i was suprised myself, althoughim glad i did it now as i believe she's got a boyfriend (havent seen her in a few days to ask, plus i think im scared of it!), although it wont really have an impact on me until hear it from her lips

[Kellie_Sabrina]

I think that was a crap answer from her. I think she's emotionally screwed up, and doesn't know what's good for her.

Uh Huh! I second that comment. She is only driving you mad & all the while making you look foolish. You have got to be strong for yourself... Have some standards sweetie!

[bugmenot]

oh no, today was her birthday, so she comes in looking the most beautiful i've ever seen her, massive smile on her face, I saw her and was stunned, she spends ages talking to Dan, but justs pretends i'm not even there, I've been cut out of her life, i'm not even allowed to buy her a present ffs

All I want to do is hold her in my arms and protect her, but I she pretends if not here ffs, just thinking about it and tears start to form

I thought I was saying goodbye and yet a whole new world of pain has been opened up. I know they'll be other girls, but at the moment theres just her. Someone must have some help on how to get past her

[Gigabitch]

I think you should try to start conversations with other girls. You say you know ther'll be other girls, but I don't think all of you knows it.

You should try to remind yourself.

[bugmenot]

oh yes, and one more thing, do women actually like the sweet and romantic types?

[Gigabitch]

Personally, I find them a bit crowding. They always scrutinize me to see if I'm appropriately thrilled with their latest romantic gesture.

Tiresome.

[vashti]

LOL - that reminds me giga - my sister's ex husband used to bring her home flowers every Friday night thinking that all women would love that. She hated those damn flowers!


Bugmenot - I think women like sweet and romantic gestures from the men they love once in a while, but I don't think women will ever love a man just because he is sweet and romantic. Ya know what I mean?

[Kellie_Sabrina]

I think women like sweet and romantic gestures from the men they love once in a while, but I don't think women will ever love a man just because he is sweet and romantic. Ya know what I mean?

Took the words right out of my mouth!

[Gigabitch]

Just like we don't want Hallmark cards with the sentiments already written inside them. So cliche.

[vashti]

... or the cheesy single red rose wrapped in plastic...

(Well, I might have liked that in Jr High or High School.)

[bugmenot]

I didn't mean that, I just wondered whether girls liked them or not