Million Dollar Advice Wanted!!!

[Why14]

Now I need some advice because I'm as confused as a drunk and homeless man
who is suddenly given a new BMW with the trunk full of money and
gets tons of sms from the hottest girl in town...

Hi I've been with a fabilous fun girl for the last 4 months.
She have been really hooked on me, and she have always wanted me to come
straight home from work and do something fun and we've spend all time together
and she loves my funny jokes and performance and tell my
that she adore me and told me that I must promise that this will be always like
that between us.

Very soon shetalked about we should start renting, by a car together
and plan our future kitchen and visit her grandfather
who lives far away.

Everything had been "we must, we should" and I liked it very much.

Just one moment, one day she changed. She was numb and she
acted like she was tired but she could laught to others but not to me and
she pay much more attention to her cat than to me.
I droped test questions and all answers are not anymore "we"
Now she say "I must go some day to that new store" but usually
it was "we must go someday"
I asked if she is tired on the relationship but she said no
and didn't want to go to that conversation.

Lot of strange changes have appear like, she quit smoking, have spend more
time studying, (she never did homework) and she is in the computer for
hours but she usually hate computers.

Now she ask if I don't have to visit my friends on the evenings
and she kiss me less goodbye and doesn't lay her hands on my laps
when we're driving.

She woke up one time, hardly said Good morning and went outside to
help her parents in the garden (she did never help her folks doing anyting)

I went partying last weekend and she was never ok with I
would go alone because she know I got a lot attention from all girls but
now she said she was ok with that, but she did call me twice
just to hear me or checking where I was and telling me she was going to
sleep and that she would have the maindoor unlocked.

Should I be calm and see what happen or say to her "We need to talk"

What is she thinking?

[mini696]

Sounds like she is finding a new independence. You should talk to her about it.

[sasa91]

Talk Talk!!!!!!!!

[vashti]

You should talk to her, although the changes you mention sound like they are GOOD changes (stop smoking, helping her parents, studying more). Maybe she is just growing up.

[blue]

At some point in your relationship and around this time i think she may just need to group her self together handle her buisness right. there is nothing wrong with doing that. Talk to her about it.

The last three months have been totaly about Sam and I. Now we both just feel like we have to do more for ourselves than just be all about us. The world does keep spinning even when you are in love.

[joe1234]

She has been kidnapped and replaced with a robot with a secret agenda. Thats my BILLION dollar advice