she needs a break..

[miffi01]

It depends on the reason why she wants to take a breather in the first place - to me it sounds like you need to show her some respect by respecting her space. Some girls don't like needy/clingy guys... some girls want a guy whose strong and independant that they can lean on. To me it sounds like she's feeling suffocated. Give her a few days of space, no contact, then approach her to talk about it. Don't impress upon her what you want, but ask her how she feels, what she wants and listen...

[johnnybravo]

ya well i gave her space and time..and now she left me forever!
she told me that she wants to be friends.
i told her i can't be friends with her cuz i love her so much!
and then she told me also that she is interested in somebody else!
can u believe that??
first she told me she needed some space and then she finds somebody else.
i kinda had a feeling that she wouldn't come back to but i would never expect that she would find somebody else that quick.
i dont know if i will ever trust a girl again.
maybe i will...but it's gonna take time.
i guess this was some kind of lesson that i should remember for the near future.
thx for all the advice guys

[Gigabitch]

For future reference:

When a woman says, "I need space" it actually means, "It's over. Give up now."

[johnnybravo]

this song is so good.
it's by staind.
it reflects what i'm going through.
just wanted to share this with you guys.


Would it matter anyway?
Would it change how you feel?

I am the mess you chose
The closet you cannot close,
The devil in you I suppose
'Cause the wounds never heal.


[Chorus:]

But everything changes
If I could turn back the years
If you could learn to forgive me
Then I could learn to feel,

Sometimes the things I say
In moments of disarray
Succumbing to the games we play
To make sure that it's real.


[Chorus]


When it's just me and you.
Who knows what we could do.
If we can just make it through
The toughest part of the day.


[Chorus]


Stay here together
And we could
Conquer the world
If we could
Say that forever
Is more than just a word.

If you just walked away
What could I really say?
Would it matter anyway?.
It wouldn't change how you feel.

[Arx Fatalis]

yeah what GigaBitch said when you hear the "i need a break but i love ou and i'll come back" it means ok you wait here while i whore around for another guy and if no one wants my skanky ass you can have me until i feel the urge for a different dick again