What to do?

[jeff4123]

It all started somewhere around 3 months ago. I had been dating my g/f for 2 or 3 weeks and all of a sudden she wanted to take a "break". She wasn't sure if she wanted a b/f at the time was her reason. I waited a few days and I felt that she was going to end it for good so I told her it shouldn't be that hard to decide if she wants to be with me or not and to make up her mind or it was over. To my surprise she decided to get back together with me.

It didn't last long though. Soon after, I'd say maybe a week, she decided she didn't want a relationship. She wanted to break up until she wanted a relationship, which wasn't going to be for a while. About a week or so into this she decided that she didn't like me "that way", and she was just going to want to be friends. I accepted this, although it hurt, and I did my best to forget.

Another week passed and she shocked me by telling me she liked me again. So we got back together in another week. Now with her constantly changing her mind I was very insecure about the relationship the whole time. Two weeks later she broke up with me again. This time she said she was sure that she didn't like me more than a friend.

Another three or four weeks pass, and I find out from her friend that she is starting to like me AGAIN! After I found this out she asked me if I thought we'd ever get back together. I told her it was up to her. We haven't gotten back together yet, but I assume she is going to want to soon.

I don't know what to do! I really love this girl, I love everything about her except for the fact that she keeps changing her mind about me.

Any suggestions, or advice on what I should do?

[King Zarathu]

If this is the same 14 year old girl, I'm not going to read the rest of the story. Get rid of her, she's too immature to realize that she breathes automatically.