ok to get a boner?

[Suburban8incher]

Is it ok to get a boner when making out? If not, any ways to avoid it, if so, what do I do? We both are saving ouselves for marriage but finding other ways to have some fun Need help, oh yeah and my username, not mine.

[joe1234]

sometimes they like it

[vashti]

If you want to avoid the boner, stop making out. That should make it easier.

[bluesummer]

Well, I personally love it when a guy gets boner. However, I'm not saving myself for marriage, so I don't have to issue much self restraint.

In your case......I think you're just going to have to live with it. Either that, or like Vashti said.....don't make out.

[nendo]

can i ask. if this happens to u lot. what exacty do u do? do u make sue she cant feel it or what

[Youth Suicide]

this happens with me cause the girl im with now ripped my piercings out....

and for some reason that was erotic... O.O

[nendo]

was it painfull though? lmao

[shai`anne]

If you want to avoid a boner close your eyes when kissing her and think you are kissing your mom.lol

[nendo]

what did u do? pull away or just stand there. did she even feel it?

[Mercury's Phoen]

It might be a bit....uncomfortable in a romantic situation. Obviously in a raunchy situation, it would help a lot. It's nice to know when you're aroused when someone is trying to arouse you, but in the other cases it might be a bit off putting. Just a personal opinion, though.

[EvilGenius]

man, i think its normal to have a boner.

make out=boner=so what?

i think they would be xcited to know u were aroused

[sweet_thing23]

its a good thing to be aroused when making out, I would be worried if you weren't!

[gorgonzola]

I'm not sure I've ever made out without getting a boner. I've also never had a girl mind it at all, like said above they tend to like it (if they even notice it if we're not going that far)

[Kellie_Sabrina]

Most all men will get a boner when making out. Most all girls like it too. It lets a girl know that she is doing her job. DO NOT be ashamed of getting a boner when making out! Totally normal!

[drewcarrey]

let's put it this way: if you get a boner when you are making out, and the girl likes it, she is good to go. if she doesn't like it, move back and say something like "i think we're moving to fast" or something like that. she will then think that you are mr. sensitive or something.

of course, this won't work with all girls ^_^ to each his own ^_^