ex's coming back

[Deftones123]

Any of you have ex's come back years later down the road, maybe just to say hey and talk

or a year down the road or what

Just wondering

I meen do some ex's never ever talk again?

[mhussain]

Yes some talk. Most assume what is I think known as the no contact policy. Usually that policy is assumed by those who do the dumping.

Hussain

[Ellynn]

Any of you have ex's come back years later down the road, maybe just to say hey and talk

or a year down the road or what

Just wondering

I meen do some ex's never ever talk again?

Yes, I've had a few who have come back and called me or emailed me a yr or so later just to talk. I even talk on a regualar basis to one of them now. I mean, we are friends now, but we don't hang out or anything. I think that would complicate things. Its best to have that distance I think. (He lives 400 miles away so that helps alot.)

I guess it does depend on the circumstances of why the break up happened and who initiated it. But, if you have no intentions of being with someone again, I suggest not having alot of contact.......or hanging out at all.

[drewcarrey]

that's funny. something exemplary to this situation happened to somebody close to me.

my girlfriend's father had a girlfriend when he was younger and went out for 5 years or so... and they broke-up because apparently, they were looking for something else. a couple of years later, the girlfriend got married to somebody else, and the guy got married to my girlfriend's mom. wopdeedoo...

around 3-4 years ago, my girlfriend lost her mom. a few months before that, my soon to be step-father's ex-girlfriend lost her husband. around a year after that, they serependitously met where they first met. now, they are going out again. almost 2 years now, and so far, so good. life has it's surprises ^_^