What do I do now??

[xcepshun]

This is sorta long and very complicated, and i would appreicate any help because i'm loosing my mind.

Quick background.. i'm 20 year old male, the girl in question is 21 year old female.


Knew her since highschool never really talked there, we ended up at the same university. She was with her ex bf for 3 years, while she was with him we were talking only as friends. She eventually told me she had feelings for me and short while later her and her bf parted, not b/c of me but b/c of other issues they were having. We talked for 5 months everyday, during this time she told me many times she felt i was her soulmate and how we are so compatible. But she also informed she didn't want to get involved right away and needed time b/c she wanted to go "explore" since she had only had that one bf for so long. She also made it clear that she would be seeing other guys but she cared about me a lot. One night me her and some mutual friends went out, she met some boy at a club and she totally ignored me the whole nite, i was very upset and hurt, and i mistakeningly made it obvious. THe next day her instant messenger name proclaimed her intrest in this boy and how she wanted to see him again etc... we didn't talk for a few days and i felt if someone has this blatent disregard i should stop talkin to her. I told her i didn't want to talk to her anymore then few days later decided i was over-reacting. When i apologized she said she didn't care and that she can't handle goodbyes and sorry's anymore, and that i'm "unstable" ( i can see how she interpreted like that). ANyways i told her how much i care for her, she said things change feelings change and for me to leave her alone. We have not spoken in a month and i miss her a lot, and I don't know if in the future i should try to talk to her again even just as friends, because, i know there is potential and my jealousy and stupid actions caused this problem. Please help!! Do i talk to her?? If so when?? What do i say??



*Sorry for the long post*

Regards,

Marc

[vwondering]

I'll tell ya. Women.. Are going to do that. If you ever find yourself in a situation where you're thinking you're having a girl just waltz into your lap with kind words from both of you it might not work.

she's atm in a mentality of exploring like she said. She's not going to committ. Don't because emotionally attached at all. Or you're going to get hurt and there's nothing you can do ><

[mini696]

Maybe you should have tried to be one of the guys she "explored" with.