BF Has Too Many Girl Friends??

[vashti]

Oh, sorry for the confusion.

I still haven't gotten around to dating the guy I had the 'height' issue with. Been far too busy sorting stuff out with my ex, moving, changing jobs, blah blah blah.

No, I'm talking about my actual most recent ex that I actually dated...... for 3.5 years.

Considering the history you have with him, I don't think I'd overlook it.

Anyway, I always find it odd that people (male or female) would be willing to risk their current relationships to maintain close contact with "friends". I'm not saying they should be willing to dump old friends - I just don't understand what the big deal is about toning them down a bit so their S/O doesn't feel threatened.

Funny, I was just wondering yesterday about your dating status...

[artyemi]

I have a really, really, good friend who is guy. He happens to have lots of friends who are females. Some guys just like to hang out with a lot of girls because it makes them feel more, I don't know, useful, especially when they can give advice from a male point of view.
But then, my friend also wishes that he could become lover to many of these gals.

[Off2College]

well i don't have a g/f, but i totally talk to girl-friends about my failed relationships all the time, and i do not find them attractive at all