What do girls like/love to hear?

[Iminlove]

I am in a relationship right now and I want to tell the girl I am with my feelings.
But I don't know what to say or how to say it can you other members of this forum help me out mainly girls but guys have a say aswell.

[Ellynn]

We mainly like you to be honest. Honesty is good! At least thats my opinion.

[Iminlove]

Thank you Ellynn I know I need to be honest about what I say and I am going to I just don't know how to put it into words and I want to tell her face to face so that it will mean more because I am serious about my feelings.

[Junket]

Try startin' off like this: "I just wanted to let you know..." and go from there.

Don't try to premeditate exactly what you're gonna say, just say it.

If you stumble and stammer, don't worry about that either, it'll just show you mean what you're sayin.

And, don't expect any sort of response in return, that can lead to disappointment. Just let her know how you feel and let it at that.

[angst]

yea man.. just talk to her and let the words flow from your heart. if you do that you'll amaze yourself and her. you'll say things and in such a way that you could never have possibly pre-thought out.

[King Zarathu]

yea man.. just talk to her and let the words flow from your heart. if you do that you'll amaze yourself and her. you'll say things and in such a way that you could never have possibly pre-thought out.

He can only do that if he's in touch with his heart.

[Iminlove]

I am in touch with my heart I just don't want to scare her.

[brokensoul]

the last thing u wanna do is to scare her. the last time i was in love i talked to the girl and she was a really good friend. after saying what i felt about her, she never talked to me again...
but if u describe her, maybe i can help u with what u can say...
if shes really sensitive and loves those romantic movies you could say "you're the best, the greatest and the happiest thing that has ever hapen'd to me" ... but of course, you should feel taht way... if not, try something else.

anyway, you should try to take her off her guard not letting her notice that you're doing it so that she would reveal what she feels about u and u would feel safer when telling her what u feel...

[Khazard]

Hmmm how long have you been going out with her? if not very long i dont advise telling how much you love her as you only just started the relationship and it could scare her off which is the last thing you want to do, however if htis relationship has been going on for a while then thats ok but dont get too emotionally otherwise you will come off clingy and needy

[drops_of_neptun]

yeah you have to feel free to tell her everything if u really care about her and u know she feels the same...onesty it's important in a relationship because with it comes trust...and tell her how much u love her...that's important for girls...to know for sure what their bf think about them

[Junket]

NO!

Don't say love!

Neptun, are you trying to sabotage this kid?!

[loveguy]

how beautiful they are

[chiodos]

NO!

Don't say love!

Neptun, are you trying to sabotage this kid?!

why is saying love so bad?

[Khazard]

Well he means telling a girl that you love her can totally back-fire and you would end up destroying your relationship resulting in her being totally freaked out and never talking to you again.

That is, unless your in a long-term relationship

[Khazard]

Well he means telling a girl that you love her can totally back-fire and you would end up destroying your relationship resulting in her being totally freaked out and never talking to you again.

That is, unless your in a long-term relationship