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    Asking a girl out

    Hi,

    I would like to know from a female point of view what the best way to ask a girl out is?

    There seems to be so many possibilities these days: face to face, email, telephone, text message, etc.

    I am presuming face to face is the best way?

    The girl that I want to ask out I don't often see on a one to one basis (ie there are normally other people with us) so what would be the best way in this situation?

    Thanks in advance for any help.

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    Try to get her by herself and ask her face-to-face. That is the best way. The others would work, too. If she likes you, it doesn't much matter.
    Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?

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    "Faint and die."

    You're quite the drama queen ain't ya.

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    Quote Originally Posted by sunflower033
    yes, i exaggerate a lot. but seriously if a guy asked me out in person i WOULD be too dumbstruck to speak
    how old are you?
    Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?

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    Quote Originally Posted by vashti
    how old are you?
    She a youngin'.

    I'm gonna say 13? 15 at the oldest.

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    OK, original poster, have you asked her out yet? Get on it!

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    that doesnt mean jack ... you need experience to know this field . Your a kid

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    Quote Originally Posted by sunflower033
    yes im 13. will be 14 in october. but im considered smart for my age by the people who know me...
    You are too young for boys to be asking you out. Don't worry, you won't faint or die in a couple of years.
    Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?

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    Quote Originally Posted by vashti
    You are too young for boys to be asking you out. Don't worry, you won't faint or die in a couple of years.
    Stop this! She has experience, remember?

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    TO me, 14 year olds can fall in love. Easily. I did =P

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    Quote Originally Posted by Fabio134 View Post
    TO me, 14 year olds can fall in love. Easily. I did =P
    I agree. Anyways the best way to ask a girl out is to get her away from the crowd to a quiet place and ask her face to face. Maybe ask her if she wants to ditch the crowd and go for a walk for a bit or sumthing like that.

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    I agree. I hate IMs and text messages.

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    Quote Originally Posted by RoxyFoxy View Post
    I agree. I hate IMs and text messages.
    I agree. You can't show emotions or express body langauge thru such things. Plus if you do it enough you tend to write letter and what have you in simulair gramer structures as well.

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