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    Lol, I'll get the whole band to direct their spit at her.

    I lied to her. I told her I'm seeing other girls... Just to make her jelous.. does that make me a bad person?

    I also told her not to bother giving me the stuff back

    Steve says: "bin it, burn it, eat it, sell it, wear it. I don't care do what you like"

    Bitch-face says: "haha funny but your having it back"

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    Quote Originally Posted by SWLR View Post
    Lol, I'll get the whole band to direct their spit at her.

    I lied to her. I told her I'm seeing other girls... Just to make her jelous.. does that make me a bad person?

    I also told her not to bother giving me the stuff back

    Steve says: "bin it, burn it, eat it, sell it, wear it. I don't care do what you like"

    Bitch-face says: "haha funny but your having it back"
    The twat wants to make some kind of statement with the way she returns it to you. Whatever. If you act nonchalant enough, it'll be just so much bla bla bla.

    Start seeing someone else. Now, tonight. Go meet somebody. Get somebody to set you up. I think it's a good idea.

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    :: Looks up the word nonchalant ::

    hehe

    It seems like shes now the one making an effort to speak to me. Maybe she's shocked that I'm not showing an interest (I've always been wrapped around her little finger)

    I think if I act nonchalant it will hurt her, it seems as if shes expecting me to break into a million pieces when I see her

    (Which I might, but she won't know that... I'll be wearing my armour )

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    Shit. Where do I begin.

    The actual gig went well... Then diaster struck

    She hurled abuse at me all night, until I said to her "Lets talk" So we sat down and talked

    (At this point in time I was very drunk)

    She asked me if I still love her. I repiled "No"

    I told her how poisonous she is, how much she has changed, how much I hate her for what she has done... She started crying, she eventually walked off and I fell apart.. luckly my friends where on standby to pick me back up.

    A little later on.. She was stroking my face.. Touching my ass


    A little while later I'm invited to a house party. So I go. Started making out with this girl. We ended up sleeping together (nothing sexual happened) Turns out she likes me (we've known each other a while, and I do like her)

    She knows all the details of my Ex.

    I'm just not sure what to do. I've put myself in an awkward situation. I miss my Ex, I thought I was getting over her until last night.

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    Her and her new boyfriend broke up...She blames me

    She found out about the new girl and isn't happy

    Oh my god, i still have feelings for her... I thought I hated her

    I'm not ready to move on

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    Quote Originally Posted by SWLR View Post
    Her and her new boyfriend broke up...She blames me

    She found out about the new girl and isn't happy

    Oh my god, i still have feelings for her... I thought I hated her

    I'm not ready to move on
    :Shakes young Steve until his eyes rattle in his head:

    For God's sake, dude. Get ahold of yourself.

    Guess what- I confess that I was poisonous to my high school boyfriend. He didn't date anyone else for five years after me. I scarred him for life. Am I truly sorry? No, because he did it to himself. He totally broke himself on me and I let him, because I had no respect for him whatsoever. I think this is why I find your thread so interesting- you're JUST LIKE HIM.

    I can tell you from this perspective that no good will come of a continued association with your ex. Now pull yourself together and move on.

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    I like this girl, but I'm not sure whether I should make something happen. It doesn't feel right

    I don't want to end up in a rebound relationship which I'll regret.

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    Quote Originally Posted by SWLR View Post
    I like this girl, but I'm not sure whether I should make something happen. It doesn't feel right

    I don't want to end up in a rebound relationship which I'll regret.
    I'm told rebounding is an important part of the healing process. I agree that it's emotionally irresponsible with regard to the other person, though. Just don't use that as an excuse to hang on to the Wicked Witch.

    Look, the new girl knows what's up with you. Maybe you guys could just take it slow. I just really think you need to find a way to dis-attach yourself from your ex, and getting some nice lovey attention from someone else is a good place to start.

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    Quote Originally Posted by SWLR View Post
    I don't want to end up in a rebound relationship which I'll regret.
    This can easily be avoided by not dating until you get yourself together.
    Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?

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    I think its impossible for me not to hurt her. I've already got too invlovled.

    I think she's too close to my group of friends, she's actually friends with my ex's now ex-boyfriend.. woah

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    Quote Originally Posted by Aegis View Post
    LOL

    I had alot of fun reading that...I read it over and over. I must ask, how did the scarring come about? Examples?!
    Emotional scarring, you goof!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Aegis View Post
    I may be an idiot, but I refuse to be called a goof!

    No...seriously...what type of emotional gauntlets did you send him through?

    I'll start a thread about it. I don't want to threadjack Steve.

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    Well today is getting even more eventful

    She begged me not to delete her again.. I found out she logged onto my msn and deleted the new girl so I comfronted her about it, she's begging me not to delete her... Man, I feel all powerful.

    Her Ex (We'll call him bob) is threatening to ruin me... and now she's threatening to kill herself

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    What a bunch of ****ing drama. How tiresome. Sounds like she and Bob might be made for one another.

    I hope new girl hasn't noticed she's been deleted- some people get all bent out of shape about that. You should call her today, just to say hello if nothing else.

    I think someone should dig a deep hole and drop your ex and Bob down it. Then you should ask yourself why she had the ability to log on to your msn. When I got divorced, I changed every password I had. Do this now.

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    Passwords changed. I never even thought she would do that.

    She just typed [s]" Love you "[/s] to me. I ignored it and said bye.

    Steve's head = pretty messed up

    [s] = Strikethrough
    Last edited by SWLR; 17-10-06 at 03:46 AM. Reason: Typo

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