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Thread: Letting go....

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    Letting go....

    Why is it so hard to let go of someone so precious to you but then again you really need to because he is not yours and his bound to get married soon .... even though he told you how much he loves you and he cares about you.....

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    Your soul is leaking. Find the hole and heal it.

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    in time ... i guess .. in God's Time

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    How long has it been?

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    almost a week now ... it does hurt like rubbing salt to your wound whenever you see them ..

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    You've got a long way to go. It takes months, sometimes years. One step at a time in the right direction....

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    i know that it'll take some time to really heal a wound such as this ... In Gods grace i will surpass it all.... im not goin to see them soon thank God

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    id like to move on ... gigabitch ...

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    It's been a week. Cut yourself some slack- it's not natural to just suck it up and get back into top gear. You have to give yourself time to deal with this, or you'll just end up stuffing your emotions down where they will fester and boil.

    What's the story on this guy?

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    well weve been friends from almost 4-5 years already and when you gets to visit we spent some time together we get along so well that we end up so close ... and when i was still sleeping he kissed me and said i love you... and before he left to go back to NY he said he will come back no matter what .. i know for a fact he has a gf but i was so blind to realized i like the feeling of being cared for loved as well.. i was so vulnerable ..

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    what do u think Gigabitch...

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    I think you sound like a one-man-woman and he sounds like a two-woman-man.

    Ouch.

    And he's getting married soon? Poisonous.

    Long story short: he's a cheater, and you don't really want him.

    Unfortunately, I have to log off now, but I'll check on this thread tomorrow.

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    ok thanks i hope you can still talk to me tomorrow ... take care then

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    So, is this a situation where you have to deal with it all alone because your friends and family would hate you if they found out?

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    im totally over him now gigabitch and i am moving on and ive start dating again since last night ..... so gigabitch wish me luck...

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