well, i've been dating this guy on and off for 3 years and we've had some great times, and some bad times..everything i thought was going great up until last friday. my boyfriend called me 3 times in a row and i didnt have my phone because i was outside laying by my pool...i called him the minute i got in the house, and he called me a cheater, and i tried calling him back and no response. I am 100% complete innocent here by the way...anyways, he talked to me on monday and tuesday of this week, and because i assumed that it was over between us, i asked him for the money he owes me, etc. he said i would get it later than sooner...so today, i didnt hear from him, and i text messaged him and asked him if he is seeing someone else...he answered back "yes, leave me alone"...i am stunned...and then im thinking, ok, if he was interested in someone, wouldnt he just want to give me my money and my things back asap so he could get on with his life? I have been staying calm, but have been thinking that maybe he just said he is seeing someone to make me jealous and mad and/or to get back at me...any thoughts?? i dont know what to do here...what do you guys think???