love-hate relationship

[mac007]

i work with this female. we went out on a couple of dates. we had sex. a long story short. she said that I did a sneaky thing to her. I know she forgives me because her body language is letting me know this, but we still haven't talked and it has been a couple of weeks.

can anybody tell me what might be going through her head. I really can't talk to her because it is at work, and i don't want to call her either. i am her co-worker. thanks for any advice. i think we have a love-hate relationship going on right now. it is just at the point of hate.

[Junket]

How are we supposed to tell give you any advice with details like that?

You could come up with better answers.

[vashti]

What sneaky thing did you do to her?

[mac007]

we had sex. and she thinks this was not the right way to do it.

[vashti]

Well, did she *consent* to having sex?

[mac007]

yes, she did

[vashti]

...??...

Well, if she consented, I assume she simply regrets that she did it at this point, especially since you haven't called her. She probably feels like a tramp and that you have lost respect for her and won't take her seriously anymore. Most girls (not all) have issues with self-respect when they indulge in very casual sex.

[mac007]

thanks for that info.

[Gigabitch]

we had sex. and she thinks this was not the right way to do it.

PIITP? Or what?