guy pins girl down

[carbon]

does the concept of him wanting to be in control during sex translate to him wanting to be in control of the relationship in general?

I think i'm just not experienced enough to answer that. It could be a ton of things to do with how your relationship was, what's changed now, etc..
However, isn't having ex sex a worry in itself? what's going on there?

yea, the situation with him now is a confusion....i'm not sure what
to make of it.

[Tiay]

does the concept of him wanting to be in control during sex translate to him wanting to be in control of the relationship in general?

IS there a relationship? I think you need to talk to him and establish wtf is going on before you keep doing whatever it is you're doing.
That kind of interpretation is tempting, but heck maybe it is just chance- I don't know, me being a virgin makes this a hard question for me to answer.

Sorry again!!

aw, no worries derm! I do have a sense of humor

[derm]

aw, no worries derm! I do have a sense of humor

Good good!

And it would appear your boyfriend has too

[carbon]

IS there a relationship? I think you need to talk to him and establish wtf is going on before you keep doing whatever it is you're doing.
That kind of interpretation is tempting, but heck maybe it is just chance- I don't know, me being a virgin makes this a hard question for me to answer.

i know there is no relationship with my ex. what i was referring to is that in general, if a guy likes to be in control in bed, does that translate to his wanting to be in control in relationships?

[Tone]

Hey this one of my moves.

[Tiay]

And it would appear your boyfriend has too

nah, he'd beat you to a bloody pulp if you tried anything

[Junket]

I'm not usually this obnoxiously perverted. I just couldn't resist it!

Liar.

Yes you are.

Minus rep!

[derm]

Minus rep!

Thanks dude ..........only 44 more to go!

[Gigabitch]

so the guy is my ex...long story. i didn't feel violated or anything like that, but actually liked the feeling a lot. however, he had never done that with me while we were together, so i wasn't sure what it meant. we didn't have sex, i.e. no penetration, but did a lot of other things, including oral.

Freaky long arms on that guy.

[Tone]

Freaky long arms on that guy.

hahah

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[carbon]

Freaky long arms on that guy.

my arms weren't pinned down at that point.

[Illusional]

you're just experiencing something that, that you actually liked. you've already gotten past the part this this wasn't rape because you wanted him to sexually take advantage of you.

secondly, because this guy was being dominating in bed, doesn't always mean they want to dominate in the relationship. he might be aggresive in bed, yet he might be a pussy when it comes to making decisions. how a person acts at times, doesn't always say that's how he/she is with all other aspects of their personality.

raverboy

[Borealis]

I suggest you read Nancy Friday's - My Secret Garden.

Many females have fantasies similar to that of rape and dominant/aggressive behavior where they must be submissive. It's interesting.

Borealis

[derm]

Freaky long arms on that guy.

LOl...................Funny