Good days and bad days...

[vashti]

Damn, Frasbee - you leave a comment like that overnight without explaining yourself? Harsh.

Mathias, I think you look like the clean-cut, athletic boy next door. If you were the right age, I would probably let you date my daughter (if you didn't piss me off). I would threaten to kill you if you touched her, though.

[Kiechi]

Haha Choi. I thought the same about that Wasian member, forgot his name. He used to be Tones chimp and I was right, he was a douche.

[Mathias]

Damn, Frasbee - you leave a comment like that overnight without explaining yourself? Harsh.

Mathias, I think you look like the clean-cut, athletic boy next door. If you were the right age, I would probably let you date my daughter (if you didn't piss me off). I would threaten to kill you if you touched her, though.

Yikes.

If I was the right age? I'm 24...why wouldn't I be old enough?

[Kiechi]

She said "right" age. Her daughters age could be anything.

[Mathias]

Ah.

BTW--quick update. Found one of her things today, that she thought she had lost. It's worth a decent amount of money. I finally got my grandmother's stuff back, but she still has stuff of mine (which I know is gone forever) that's worth a lot....

Oh, well, time to be the bigger man here.

Also, the other girl I had mentioned earlier yesterday...I'm starting to think she likes me too. I'm horrible at reading the signs of this crap, and honestly, I shouldn't even be thinking about it right now, but it's getting to the point where I'm even realizing it.

Bah. This is going to be a good weekend, though. Get together tonight, where I get to meet a good friend's girlfriend, drinks tomorrow night, Halloween party Friday night, and the game on Saturday.

Again, at least I'm busy. I did feel a little bit of anger today, though, when I found her possession. It just reminded me of how much I did for her, and how little she ever did for me. Ugh.

I'm getting even more comments about how much happier I've been in the last month. One day at a time, I guess.

[Junket]

Interesting.

Why's that?

I think you look like the clean-cut, athletic boy next door.

That's why.

Ya look like them jocked out yuppies.

Just a prejudice of mine.

[vashti]

That's why.

Ya look like them jocked out yuppies.

Just a prejudice of mine.

When you have a daughter some day, you will learn to appreciate boys that look like this. It beats the tatooed, lip-pierced, tongue-pierced, makeup wearing boys any day.

[Junket]

When you have a daughter some day, you will learn to appreciate boys that look like this. It beats the tatooed, lip-pierced, tongue-pierced, makeup wearing boys any day.

I have prejudices towards them too.

I like the kind of guy I am, naturally.

I'm hard to come by y'know, I'd be pleased if my daughter found a guy like me.

[vashti]

I'd be pleased if my daughter found a guy like me.

All men say that.

[Mathias]

Aaaand tonight was a bad night.

I don't know. I feel like everything's going fine, and something else hits. Today, it was the insecurity of someone who put everything into four years, just to have it blow up for no apparent reason. But, I did make a decision tonight.

It's a one year moratorium. Since I was 14 years old, I've been a chronic dater. I've never been single for a consecutive year. Since I was dumped on my birthday, it's easy. Nothing even resembling a relationship will happen until at least my 25th birthday.

It's Mathias's year. I have 11 months left. Time to get past everything, then I can really enjoy the last 3/4 of my life.

[Junket]

Chronic dater, eh?

Damn, you're the exact opposite of me.

I have too much Choi-time.

[Mathias]

Chronic dater, eh?

Not for the next 11 months.

Seriously, had a blast last night...and even though it's been a rough couple of days emotionally, I'm STILL getting the comments that I'm happier than I've ever been.

Halloween party tonight. I'm Ron Burgandy. I'll drunk-post if I remember when I get home.

[vashti]

Who is Ron Burgandy?

[Mathias]

By the way, for the guys who might be going through similar situations and reading this...

The best thing you can do for yourself right now? Get in shape.

Seriously. I was at 195, I got down to 170 (the healthy way), and I'm now up to 175, building muscle.

It makes you feel better about yourself...you feel like a new person, it attracts women...and most importantly, it's something you should be doing anyway.

And as I've been hinting, even with all the parties this weekend, it's been a tough weekend. But, hey, one day at a time, my friends.

[Mathias]

Who is Ron Burgandy?

Anchorman.

I used to be a television anchor before I switched careers, so it fit.