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    Girl wont reply to my emails what shall i do?

    I saw this girl, who I really liked, added her,she also added me,

    Sent her 3 mails on hi5, and I don’t know what to do know she hasn’t replied.

    Also I won’t see her again so I can’t talk to her because I only saw her once.

    The last time I saw her she smiled at me

    What should i do know?

    Thanks

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    Do you know she has definatly read the e-mails?

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    she hasss read my email
    i cud email her sister

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    Quote Originally Posted by bentley View Post
    I saw this girl, who I really liked, added her,she also added me,

    Sent her 3 mails on hi5, and I don’t know what to do know she hasn’t replied.

    Also I won’t see her again so I can’t talk to her because I only saw her once.

    The last time I saw her she smiled at me

    What should i do know?

    Thanks

    How long did you leave between sending each message? Receiving 3 messages at once might come across as a bit "Clingy"
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    i have just found out my friend, has seen this girls sister at the collage next to his uni, what should he say to her.

    she smiled at me loads and even said hey, but no proper convo

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    I think you should establish a proper conversation with her

    Does she have a boyfriend? No? Ask her out
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    Stop sending emails to her. Only try emailing again after you have had a proper conversation. She may not even be available.
    Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?

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    Quote Originally Posted by SWLR View Post
    How long did you leave between sending each message? Receiving 3 messages at once might come across as a bit "Clingy"
    I totally agree here. If you sent out 3 e-mails without any reply from her you were giving off 'IM DESPERATE' signals. You should have started off slowly, send 1, wait for a reply only then follow up with a second.

    It also depends on the time frame between you sending the first and the third. I mean sending 3 e-mails over the space of a year is fine but 3 over the space of a week is again coming across as desperate.
    Last edited by derm; 18-10-06 at 03:09 AM.
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    okk, what should the guy that sees her sister say to her sister about me

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    Quote Originally Posted by bentley View Post
    okk, what should the guy that sees her sister say to her sister about me
    I personally prefer to 'fight my own battles' but I do know some prefer to get a third party to find out. I agree it's effective but may make you come accross as a wimp.

    It's probably best to meet her youself personally and see her reaction towards you. You shouldn't try too hard or seem toooooo interested. Just play it cool and see how it goes.

    If she does bring up the topic of the emails say you were really drunk when you sent the last two and apologize for possibly coming across as an idiot.

    It's very hard for us to give you advice as we have limited info about the girl/situation etc
    Last edited by derm; 18-10-06 at 03:10 AM.
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    theres no other way for me to contact her then, through my friend who has seen her sister, beacuse she has not replied to any of my emails.

    plus my friend thinks her sister cute anyway, so he gets to know here sister.

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    Don't e-mail her any more. If it's meant to be, it will happen, and you'll see her again. Having a srtictly e-mail relationship is no good anyway.

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