How to Have Perfect Sex

[damoclesjones]

How to Witness the Creation of the Universe During Sexual Intercourse

First off, intimacy. You have to make sure you are with someone who you can tell your deepest secrets, admit your most shameful acts, and share your most intimate perceptions. Can you normally talk together about love, madness, god and death without awkwardness and missed-cues? Also, are you comfortable naked together? You have to be sure of intimacy because you are going to dive right into another's psyche, and you have to be sure you can breathe in there.

Next, surrender. The man has to abandon himself to the beauty of the woman, and the woman to the authority of the man, and both to what is going on right now, and not a mental-emotional reaction to it. Beauty isn't usual fertility-beauty, but an alluring yet almost disturbing mysteriousness. And authority isn't usual technical-authority either, but a selfless artistic confidence. This sensuous attention is hard to experience in sex if it is foreign to every-day experience.

Next, totality. Every single part of the body must be inhabited. There must be sensation everywhere, not just in the cock and cunt. By placing attention on as much of the body as possible, and the good feelings inside, one leaves the mechanical and reactive mental-emotional porn-story and enters the what-is.

Next, authenticity. Nothing learned, studied or practised. Most mean learn at some point how to technically bring a woman to orgasm, and most women learn to grind away like a porn star. None of that: Innocent, spontaneous, and here-and-now. If one spots the other in their own little mechanical world, they have to say something, and work to come back together, looking again adoringly and consciously in each others eyes, talking softly perhaps.

Intimacy, surrender, totality and authenticity take two people, together, into the secret experience of what reality really is. It is like holding hands and dying together - not into another marvellous place or time, but into a different experience of time and space; that which existed before time and space - the universe - began.

[vashti]

Before long you will not just witness the creation of the universe, you will be it.

But what I really want to know is will I be witnessing the creation of another human being as well?

Anyway, you sound like a new-age hippy.

[damoclesjones]

It's a shame I sound that way. It's because words have connotations. It's just like the words "redistribution of wealth" sound socialist, or the words "the world is ending" sound pessimistic. The point is not what words sound like, but what they mean.

Thanks for your comment though.

[Junket]

There's rumor that Zath put it to a worm.

That's pretty shameful.

Now would he have to admit this to his partner before he can achieve "perfect" sex?

[Gigabitch]

Meh. Talk is cheap. I'll need to see some references, DJ.

[vashti]

Meh. Talk is cheap. I'll need to see some references, DJ.

+1

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[King Zarathu]

Vash, did you get my PM?

[vashti]

Vash, did you get my PM?

I did. I will respond a little later since I have to go out soon. OKay?

[King Zarathu]

I did. I will respond a little later since I have to go out soon. OKay?

Love you, dear.

[damoclesjones]

Meh. Talk is cheap. I'll need to see some references, DJ.

The only "reference" you need is recognition that your sex-life is not good enough, that it could be better - not just quantitively (longer, more intense) but qualitively (a completely new experience of shared-reality). With this recognition the suggestions above make sense.

[Junket]

The only "reference" you need is recognition that your sex-life is not good enough, that it could be better - not just quantitively (longer, more intense) but qualitively (a completely new experience of shared-reality). With this recognition the suggestions above make sense.

Who asked you?

[EtherealDream]

Who asked you?

Nobody needed to.

[Junket]

Nobody needed to.

I didn't ask you, that's for sure.

Now go delete your post.

[King Zarathu]

I didn't ask you, that's for sure.

Now go delete your post.

Frasbee rules too.

[EtherealDream]

I didn't ask you, that's for sure.

Now go delete your post.

Grow up. This is a forum, nobody needs to ask anyone to post, plus I could care less about what you think. I will no longer respond to you in this thread, because you are certainly not worth it.