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[Alex Nova]

You obviously didn't go to law school, counselor!

Your advice would work well if you want to date men. Anyway, I didn't dismiss all your points, only two of them, and that was because they sucked. Sorry. Have fun attracting men, though!

Like I said... left, right and center...

[Gigabitch]

Here's what turns me on:

A quietly confident man who doesn't need to "show" me anything. He drives a practical vehicle, not a beater, not a toy. His hands are strong and callused, because he works with them. His gaze is direct and purposeful. He is the kind of man who takes his hat off when he goes inside, and who holds the door open for women without even thinking about it.

He is not playing around. I do not get the impression at all that I am one of twenty women he has noticed today. He does not waste my time. He does not waste his own time. He makes it clear that he wants me. He listens. He never lies.

Why spend even a minute on anything less?

[vashti]

::sigh:: Giga, you should write porn for women.

[Gigabitch]

::sigh:: Giga, you should write porn for women.

Well. I'm certainly ready to go and pick my boyfriend up at the airport. (4 hours and counting.....).

[vashti]

In case I forget to say so later, I hope you have a GREAT time this weekend. Take pictures if you feel up to sharing!

[Alex Nova]

Here's what turns me on:

A quietly confident man who doesn't need to "show" me anything. He drives a practical vehicle, not a beater, not a toy. His hands are strong and callused, because he works with them. His gaze is direct and purposeful. He is the kind of man who takes his hat off when he goes inside, and who holds the door open for women without even thinking about it.

He is not playing around. I do not get the impression at all that I am one of twenty women he has noticed today. He does not waste my time. He does not waste his own time. He makes it clear that he wants me. He listens. He never lies.

Why spend even a minute on anything less?

hah your being logical and emotional, thats cool, but if your gonna break it down, most of those traits in a men make you feel NICE, not horny!

If a girl knows her guy is safe, will never cheat/play around, not even a hint of being secretive or naughty then she will soon dump him cos he is bloody boring and so predictable... why do women read romance novels and watch soapies where men and women cheat so much?? Cos it turns them on! You girls will never admit it, but its true!

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[vashti]

hah your being logical and emotional, thats cool, but if your gonna break it down, most of those traits in a men make you feel NICE, not horny!

If a girl knows her guy is safe, will never cheat/play around, not even a hint of being secretive or naughty then she will soon dump him cos he is bloody boring and so predictable... why do women read romance novels and watch soapies where men and women cheat so much?? Cos it turns them on! You girls will never admit it, but its true!

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How old are you?

EDIT: Nevermind. Your profile says you are 36. What age are the girls you normally date? Because Giga and I are both about your age, and I am pretty sure we know what we like by now. I haven't watched soaps or read romance novels since I was 15, and I have outgrown the kind of games you seem to advocate. Maybe this is why men our age like to date girls in their early 20s. Grown women usually require more authenticity.

On the other hand, I do know a few women in their thirties who might buy your line, but they are the desperate sort...

[Alex Nova]

How old are you?

EDIT: Nevermind. Your profile says you are 36. What age are the girls you normally date? Because Giga and I are both about your age, and I am pretty sure we know what we like by now. I haven't watched soaps or read romance novels since I was 15, and I have outgrown the kind of games you seem to advocate. Maybe this is why men our age like to date girls in their early 20s. Grown women usually require more authenticity.

On the other hand, I do know a few women in their thirties who might buy your line, but they are the desperate sort...

Like it or not, its true. Being desperate has little to do with it.

Desperate house wives... rings any bells? Whats the whole show about? Oh thats right, cheating women etc... and women love that show.

//STOP SPAMMING//

[vashti]

Desperate house wives... rings any bells? Whats the whole show about? Oh thats right, cheating women etc... and stupid, desperate women love that show. I like 'em stupid and desperate. Smart, mature ones intimidate me

There, I fixed your post.

[Alex Nova]

There, I fixed your post.

Smart, mature? Sorry I prefer em young, this counts you out

[Borealis]

I wonder why you need to look at women so hostile. I understand your perspective, but you're making a vast generalization that encapsulates only a small majority of women who are young, naive, and not sure as to what they want in a man. However, I do concur that a sexual presence must be there to create attraction; I do not believe however that it is ultimately the summation of the encounter, which agrees with many of Gigas viewpoints.

Maybe you feel inadequate with your success with women that you need to make misogynistic comments? Or maybe you feel intimidated by the real confident men who have actual success with women that need not to refer women in the ways you do? Whatever it is: get real.

Borealis

[Alex Nova]

I wonder why you need to look at women so hostile. I understand your perspective, but you're making a vast generalization that encapsulates only a small majority of women who are young, naive, and not sure as to what they want in a man. However, I do concur that a sexual presence must be there to create attraction; I do not believe however that it is ultimately the summation of the encounter, which agrees with many of Gigas viewpoints.

Maybe you feel inadequate with your success with women that you need to make misogynistic comments? Or maybe you feel intimidated by the real confident men who have actual success with women that need not to refer women in the ways you do? Whatever it is: get real.

Borealis

You see, my posts have little to do with romantic "love fantasy stories and advice" thats gets men or women anywhere. Infact the bulk of my posts is the real truth behind every male/female interaction. I dont sugar coat anything, I tell it like it is, something that not many people are prepared to do on here or IRL.

Misogynistic comments? I fail to see any in my thread. And plz define "real confident men that have success with women" you mean men balding men in their early 30s pushing the pram while the wife is stocking up on cosmetics and getting boob jobs done?

A real man if you dont know is a man who knows how to respect himself and others, he can satisfy women both mentally and physically, he is not needy and does not rush into marriages because a society tells him so. He captures women with his mind and affection and confidence, not his money or fame.
After being unsuccesful with women and dating since prime age, I have changed my ways and started having success and since have never looked back.

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[Tiay]

If a girl knows her guy is safe, will never cheat/play around, not even a hint of being secretive or naughty then she will soon dump him cos he is bloody boring and so predictable... why do women read romance novels and watch soapies where men and women cheat so much?? Cos it turns them on!

This is completely untrue. I hate those storylines. I hated the Ross and Rachel storyline, and loved the Monica and Chandler one. I always love the couple who is faithful and would never cheat. If you are implying that girls look for guys who are more likely to cheat on them when looking for a serious relationship, you are wrong.

You girls will never admit it, but its true!

Ah, you're safe-guarding yourself against a proper, fair discussion by basically saying "nothing you can say will convince me otherwise". what's the point of putting it forward in a forum designed to discuss things then? If you read all our posts with a closed mind and they have no chance of making you say "well, maybe this person has a point", then there is no point trying to discuss them. So please open your mind to a fair debate, or don't try to debate in the first place.

[lovesjoyajm]

Flashy cars to me say "I have too much money with nothing constructive to spend it on". Either that, or "I have a small weenie".

Agreed. I know nothing about cars, but I am nearly obsessed with BMW Z-3s - I just happen to think they're awesome, and would love to drive one or take a ride in one. However, I've come to the realization that if a guy I was interested in owned a Z-3, I'd probably be turned off by it unless he explained very quickly that he had won it in a raffle or it had mysteriously turned up in his driveway with a note from his secret admirer. Or something.

[vashti]

Smart, mature? Sorry I prefer em dumb, this counts you out

Yes, it does. That's okay - your type was never my cup of tea, either.