She loves me, but I dont feel the same

**letmeputyouon** · 27-10-06, 09:29 AM

Ok heres the thing. I have this woman that appears to be perfect for me. She does the things I like, even the things I like that she doesnt she learns to like. The problem is, I dont like her. This woman loves me and even my parents like her and everyone I know likes her. Being that everyone tells me shes a good catch I tried, for 2 years but I STILL dont feel the same way. I dont even like having sex with her much. What am I to do? I know shes a good woman but I feel like I cant keep this up any longer, ive spoken with her about it but its going nowhere. I have no attraction to this women but im highly attracted to a few others ive met in the time ive been with her. And before you question its not just a physical attraction. Like this one woman I know excites me so much I just feel like going for her but I dont want to be an ungrateful bastard to this woman im with. I feel like I should follow my heart but I keep holding back because im 27 and I figure what happens if it doesnt work out and I lose out on a perfectly good woman. But then again its a woman im not in to. What if 10 years go by and I still feel like I do today? This woman loves me and is talking about marriage, I cant do that. I dont love her. She knows and is still willing to keep trying. What would you do in a situation like this or what more info do you need because I really need help. Thanks in advanced.

**vashti** · 27-10-06, 10:40 AM

Jeez, buddy - she has to worry about fading beauty and a biological time clock. Stop wasting her time and break it off with her already. If you don't love her, then you don't love her. She deserves someone who WILL.