breakup

[galadriel]

i am not native english speaker, so sorry for my english.
my now ex-boyfriend has sent me a sms-message like this: Hi, sorry that i didn´t call you. I was thinking about our relation-ship and I found that that wasn´t it. We can meet even sometimes as the friends. Good -bye.
The situation was like that we didn´t have ANY disputes, i don´t understand WHY. He even didn´t know to explain it.
What do you think about it?

[Illusional]

i would suggest that you talk to him. because he doens't seem to know how to explain it, i would guess that he just lost interest. he doesn't know how to tell you it which is why he can't seem to explain things. being that he wants to still be friends suggest that you're not ending on bad terms and he doesn't really want to tell you the truth, so he's letting you off easy. raverboy

[galadriel]

an what is the truth in this case??
he is egoistic coward, that´s truth. and him himself and his own "interests" are his only life´s interest. we cannot be in relationship and rest in your own......

[Illusional]

you asked for opinions and i gave you minds. i feel that he doesn't really care to have anything with you because he is still young. he wants to venture out and explore what the world has to offer. raverboy

[JohnsonROd]

I agree with illusional. He has just lost interest and is sparing your feelings. Same thing has happened to me, and I couldn't seem to explain it to my girlfriend then either...

so just let him go

[gnextdoor63]

Hate to say it but he may not be able to explain it because he doesn't know how to "nicely" say he's interested in someone else. That's often what is really happening in these scenarios.