How many is too many?

**Seducer** · 02-03-07, 02:58 AM

Its not the number that matters, its the state of mind at the time it happened. In my opinion if a girl was planning on a relationship with the guy and had sex then it shouldn't be considered slutty, but if the initial idea was a one night stand i would say shes a slut.

18 and 4

**LuvSickStagger** · 02-03-07, 03:29 AM

42

(that was a joke)

**jurupa** · 02-03-07, 05:54 AM

Originally Posted by LuvSickStagger

42

(that was a joke)

Wrong. That is the answer to life.

**Gribble** · 02-03-07, 06:01 AM

Wrong. That is only the answer. The question remains unknown.

**Misslissa** · 02-03-07, 02:07 PM

I have a friend who is 21 is has slept with count them 33 guys. Would you be with her? becuase her last bf just broke up with her for that reason.

I am 21 and i have been with 4

**jurupa** · 02-03-07, 02:46 PM

21 and been with 33 guys? I think I am going to get a head start and start running for it now. Does your friend like one night stands or something?

**The Great OV!!!** · 02-03-07, 02:51 PM

Originally Posted by Misslissa

I have a friend who is 21 is has slept with count them 33 guys. Would you be with her?

Heeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeelllllllllllllllllllllllll no.

**clynn** · 03-03-07, 04:55 AM

I'm 32 - slept with 14.

My current boyfriend has never asked for numbers, and I've never asked him. As we've gotten more comfortable with each other, we've shared some of our crazy stories, and I believe we have not dissimilar histories and approaches to sex / relationships.

**clynn** · 03-03-07, 04:58 AM

All good comments and advice, vash!

Originally Posted by vashti

Personally, I would tell him I wasn't the kiss-and-tell type, and tell him to quit asking questions he didn't REALLY want to know the answer to. If he persisted on pressuring me to answer, I would bluntly tell him I considered his badgering a violation of my privacy. If he still pushed it, I would consider it a problem. Who wants to be with someone who can't respect your boundaries?

Of course, another approach would be to simply lie to him, and I think guys who push too much in this area of questioning are asking to be lied to. If a girl has only had one or two lovers, she will generally make this known.

**The Great OV!!!** · 03-03-07, 06:27 AM

Oh gimme a break, the guy at least deserves to know the truth...no matter what the reaction is...just cause you don't like it...don't be selfish. You can keep it to yourself, sure, but lying is just stupid.

**Gigabitch** · 03-03-07, 07:47 AM

Believe it or not, some guys just don't care.

**TasteThePain** · 03-03-07, 10:37 AM

Age 16 and 5 partners

**The Great OV!!!** · 03-03-07, 11:02 AM

Originally Posted by Gigabitch

Believe it or not, some guys just don't care.

Infact plunty of them don't. Most of my friends are to stupid to even figure out that women can have sex with other people besides them. They are still trying to get through highschool at 23. Takes all kinds, never the less...don't you agree that those who DO care should get the option to know?

**Gribble** · 03-03-07, 11:10 AM

I don't. The only thing you're entitled to know is that she's healthy.

**jurupa** · 03-03-07, 11:53 AM

Originally Posted by The Great OV!!!

Infact plunty of them don't. Most of my friends are to stupid to even figure out that women can have sex with other people besides them. They are still trying to get through highschool at 23. Takes all kinds, never the less...don't you agree that those who DO care should get the option to know?

Why are so you so bent on wanting to know this? There is no right to know this info. you can ask, but the girl can lie easy. But your friends need help if they think that.

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