Why must every guy look at porn?

[Katty]

Okay - so I need to ask. Why do all guys look at porn? I'm only saying "all," because I have not yet met any guys who don't look at porn.
I want to know everything. Like, what's the turn on? Especially for guys who think sluts are gross, because they're jerking off to sluts when they look at porn.
Also, do you still look at this stuff when you have a girlfriend? If you do, why? Why do you need to?
And to those of you (if there are any) who are addicted to it, what makes it so addicting?
I have never seen any hot girls in pornos. If their face is pretty, their body is gross - and vice versa. I just don't get what the turn on is.
I ask my male friends this a lot. Most of them say it's because they need to jerk off, but they can't do it without the visual stimulation.
What do you think?

[jurupa]

Okay - so I need to ask. Why do all guys look at porn? I'm only saying "all," because I have not yet met any guys who don't look at porn.

You have not meet every guy in the world so using the word "all" is improper. Instead you should say "every guy that I have met" instead.

I want to know everything.

You better get a pen and a notebook out then.

Like, what's the turn on?

Its visual stimulation, which in turn turns a guy on. Why do you think guys get all happy when a girl flashes her boobs at them.

Especially for guys who think sluts are gross, because they're jerking off to sluts when they look at porn.

Again guys need visual stimulation to get off. But when it comes to guys having sex knowing that the girl has slept around is a turn off. My guess its just the nature of guys.

Also, do you still look at this stuff when you have a girlfriend?

If I did have a girl friend I may look at it every once awhile, unless she was into it as well. Some girls are.

If you do, why? Why do you need to?

I may look at it if she has been to tired or stressed out for a long period due to things in her life that has made her not want to have sex.

And to those of you (if there are any) who are addicted to it, what makes it so addicting?

I am not addicted to it, so I can't tell you why.

I have never seen any hot girls in pornos. If their face is pretty, their body is gross - and vice versa. I just don't get what the turn on is.

Once again its the visual simulation. But I do agree with you on the ugly statement. Mostly because a lot of female porn stars get implants and/or cosmetic surgery that makes them uglier than better looking. There are good looking natural porn starts out there, but they tend to be hard to find and I tend to run into them when I am looking at porn.

I ask my male friends this a lot. Most of them say it's because they need to jerk off, but they can't do it without the visual stimulation.

Even your guy friends are telling you the same thing I am telling you.

What do you think?

What do I think? I think that your sexual knowledge of guys is on the low side and you are interested in learning a bit more about it. Unless you mean what I been repeated a shit load of times, which is guys get off from visual simulation. Please don't ask me to say it again.

[Ellynn]

I would rather have a guy look at porn then have real live visual stimulation from some other girl or a stripper.

[Zach]

I did look at porn for a period of my life, but I don't anymore. I am single and I still don't look at it.

My reasons:

1. I don't like the idea of sex without intimacy.
2. I get addicted to it too easily, and I am currently trying to rid myself of every possible addiction in my life.
3. I don't want to desensitize myself in any way possible. I want to keep my heart as pure as I possibly can. (Yeah I know that sounds cheesy as hell but thats how I feel)

For me, the reason why it was so addicting was because it was such a great get off when I did it. But here is the main factor in why it was addicting- it always leaves you wanting more. The lusting thirst in me never was quenched so I would try to quench it as much as possible and learned to live with myself like that. When you try to stop, and stop quenching that lust thirst it goes nuts as if you a withdrawing alcoholic. But in the end, being free of a never ending thirst has left me feeling free in a strange sort of way.

Just some thoughts -- Zach

[Junket]

My question is, why do girls love to shop so much?

[TDurden]

I tend to accumulate porn only when I'm not dating. As soon as I'm in a relationship, I delete it all (I only ever have porn on my computer). When not in a relationship, I find that porn is the best way to deal with having a strong sex drive. Personally I'd much rather be in a real relationship, even one without sex, then have a bunch of pornography, but that's not always a choice.

Bottom line is for most men, it's the most casual and simplist way to deal with being horny.

[Zach]

Personally I'd much rather be in a real relationship, even one without sex, then have a bunch of pornography, but that's not always a choice.

This is the sadest thing I have heard in a while.

[Junket]

This is the sadest thing I have heard in a while.

How is that sad?

[Ellynn]

This is the sadest thing I have heard in a while.

Yeah how is that sad? Personally I would rather have a guy then a B.O.B. but that ain't happening anytime soon. Even a guy to cuddle with would be sufficient.

I don't think thats sad.

[Zach]

How is that sad?

Well, maybe I took it incorrectly but it seemed like he would rather have porn instead of "Sexual Intimacy". Feel free to correct me if I have read it wrong.

If that is the case then it is sad to me because I have had a glimpse of what that can really feel like. Thats all.

[Ellynn]

TD said he would rather have a real relationship, even without sex, then porn anyday!

I totally agree.

Its so much better when emotions are involved. With porn they obviously aren't.

[Zach]

OHHH I feel dumb now. Totally read that wrong. My bad.

Yeah, im glad we all agree.

[Tiay]

I'll admit to watching porn now and then, and reading erotica also. It just makes masturbating less.... well, boring.

[Junket]

I'll admit to watching porn now and then, and reading erotica also. It just makes masturbating less.... well, boring.

Dude, good erotica beats out porn ANY day.

[Zach]

As long as you don't let fantasy warp your mind of what real life is actually life. It can happen very easily. Just a thought.

Z- stfu