Heyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy!!

[OnHoliday]

Hey guys an gals my names chris i live in london and have never had a girl friend n btw im 15 i know sounds sad... but i will soon explain my problems on the forum

[Tiay]

Hello, welcome and-- wait, isn't it past your bedtime?

[OnHoliday]

LOOL well it is a forum I do not intend to concentrate on my spelling as I do not pay much attention to it... but if this forum is going to be insulting me on my bad grammar (which it isn’t bad) then OK then ill be using good grammar


And hey Tjay LOL i cant get any sleep for some reason :p

[Tiay]

yes, please use good grammar. bad grammar hurts our eyes.

[OnHoliday]

Ok I will be taking your point of view on using good grammar
Thx

[Tiay]

And don't mind zarathu, he insults everyone, including me. *glares*

[Junket]

I'm 20 and still never officially had a girlfriend.

[Tiay]

I didn't have a real life bf till I was 18.

[OnHoliday]

Wow never knew this many havnt had a gf/bf till late age... just a bit weird because all my friend have had a gf/bf like since they were 13

[Tiay]

reading everything in bold is kind of annoying me, I gotta say..

usually, these kids have no idea what a proper relationship entails, they just find the idea of having a 'boyfriend' or 'girlfriend' novel, so they kind of align with each other so that they can say "oh, I have a girlfriend now" and shit. Believe me, in most cases it means nothing.
I know plenty of people who did have "bf"/"gf"'s when they were between 12 and 17, but looking back, they see that it wasn't a real, proper relationship afterall. Heck, I called someone my "boyfriend" who I hadn't even met. I just know now how silly that was.

[OnHoliday]

I know exactly what you meen TJay, I also know a lot of people like that and i have asked them "Do you realy love the person you are with now?" And they reply stupidy with "I dont know!" and "Atleast i have a girlfriend"

[Tiay]

yeah, you don't need any of that. Don't seek a girlfriend for the sake of having a girlfriend.

I also want to mention that the person who I now realise wasn't really my 'boyfriend' at all, was still really meaningful to me as a close friend. I regret messing up what could've been a great friendship with a really cool person.

[anachronistic]

I didn't have a real life bf till I was 18.

you are so pretty that this is hard to believe. unless, ofcourse, you turned a bunch of guys down

and i thought it was t-i-a-y? not with a "j"

[Tiay]

heh aw

well... I did grow up in the middle of nowhere and was homeschooled, plus nobody in my neighbourhood is even remotely in my age range. When i was, say 14-16 I did have a female friend who lived in the area, but she was like the kids OnHoliday describes; one week she'd have this "boyfriend" and the next week it was a different boy.. and it was all fake, and just really didn't interest me. Frankly the dating scene in Ireland has never interested me all that much-- the guys at college, even if I was single now, are just not my types at all. They're not on my level of thought, and I don't mean they're not smart or something- but they just do not understand me in the way that my bf understood me instantly when we first met. I've never met anybody who I just click with so well- and if I don't have that, then I don't think it's worth it.

[anachronistic]

i see what you mean... where did you grow up? you can pm me if you dont want ppl to know