GF doesn't seem to care what I do?

[Xposed]

I'm going out with a 16 yr old and I'm 18 and we've been going out for about 2 months.

The thing that questions if she cares about me is that..

She never asks where I've been and doesn't seem to care too.

Just like on Saturday we were supposed to go out to a club with her best friends and I found out that weren't because I called and If I didn't have called here I would have never knowned.
But she told me today that at the last minute she was invited to a birthday party from a guy friend and she just went with her female friends and she never invited me. WTF is going on?

I haven't seen her since friday, she acting like we are really good friends not a couple.


What should I tell her?

[IceQueen]

What makes you think you are a couple?

[Xposed]

what do you mean?

[IceQueen]

Looks like she thinks you two are casually dating, which is a far way off from being committed to each other as a couple.

[Xposed]

Well, everywhere we go we hold hands,kiss,hug,play around.

So that makes me think we're a couple also I asked she wanted to my gf and she said "yes".


This Saturday she found out that I lied to her, she asked me what I did on friday and I said "nothing" and my friend by mistake said that we went to a club.

And she was pissed and she didn't want to talk about it during a party on saturday and during the party she was all happy with me.

[squirrley]

have to chime here: if you're a couple you care about eachother to some degree right? Why would you lie to her man?
I think which we kinda discussed this before, you need to talk to her, or make a split.

Doesnt sound like you're getting what you want from her, remember she's 16. You're 18 your social activities are bound to be different.

[MVPlaya]

If she doens't ask about you, call you, ask you out, or initiate some form of contact every so often that thats a sign of low interest.

[III Angie III]

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